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1、ᖗ⧚ᄺϧϮ㣅䇁䇏⠽6.HowtoBuildKids'EmotionalIntelligence佪䛑Ꮬ㣗ᄺᖗ⧚ᄺ㋏䳋䳇㓪2000ˉ71999-12-8HowtoBuildKids'EmotionalIntelligenceEveryyearaboutthistime,afteritgetscoldbutbeforethefirstsnow,preschoolteacherSabrinaNorthasksparentstosendinchildren'ssnowclothes.Forthenextfewweeks,shehelps3-year-oldslear
2、nhowtoputonsnowsuits,mittens,boots,andhats.Againandagainandagain,shecheerfullydeflectsthewhiningandfrustrationuntilallthechildrencandoitthemselves.Thepracticingpaysoffoncethesnowcomes,butforNorth,thisisn'tjustaboutteachingindependence.She'steachingemotionalintelligence,orEQ.Huh?EQr
3、eferstosocialandemotionalskills,toaperson'scapacityforrelationshipsandsensitivitytooneselfandothers.It'sisabitofabuzzwordthesedays,buttheconceptofemotionalintelligencehasbeenaroundfordecades;anyonewhohasbeenintherapyundoubtedlyhasbeenexposedtoit,andmanyofusasparentspromoteitintuiti
4、vely.Thatmaynotbeenough,however.Inourincreasinglydiverse,adversarial,andviolentworld,researchers,educators,andpsychologistssayemotionalintelligenceisasurvivalskill,notsomethingthatcanbelefttochance.Indeed,theyarguethatEQismoreimportantthanIQ,in1ᖗ⧚ᄺϧϮ㣅䇁䇏⠽6.HowtoBuildKids'EmotionalIn
5、telligence佪䛑Ꮬ㣗ᄺᖗ⧚ᄺ㋏䳋䳇㓪2000ˉ7factthatEQpromotesIQ,andthatinthenextmillennium,peoplewhoarelowonitwillbemiserable.SoNorthstartswith3-year-oldsjustastheyarebeginningtoseethemselvesaspartofalargercommunity.``Ihelpthemmaketheconnectionthatpersistenceleadstocompetence,''shesays.``Itellth
6、em,`Seewhatpracticedid!Youcandothingsforyourself!Doesn'tthatmakeyoufeelgood?'''Thereinliesthenub.``FeelinggoodaboutyourselfisthebasisforEQ,''saysNorth.``Itmakesyoufeelempowered,andthemoresureyouareofyourself,themoreyouarecapableoflearningandofgivingofyourself.''Northisheadteacherat
7、theUniversityofMichiganChildren'sCenter.UnlikeIQ,thereisnowaytomeasureEQexceptanecdotally.North,forinstance,mighttellparents,``Joeyishavingahardtimeplayinginacooperativeway,''andofferwaysforthemtopromotecooperation,perhapsbydoingachoretogetherandcommenting,``Thisjobwassomuchmorefun
8、doingittogether!''EQisofte
