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1、为期两天的拓展训练于昨天下午顺利落下帷幕,剩下的是满身的无力和疼痛,但是这次训练给了我一次终身难忘的经历,更给了我一笔宝贵的精神财富TED英语演讲稿:解密爱情与出轨 i'dliketotalktodayaboutthetwobiggestsocialtrendsinthecomingcentury,andperhapsinthenext10,000years.butiwanttostartwithmyworkonromanticlove,becausethat'smymostrecentwork.whatiandm
2、ycolleaguesdidwasput32people,whoweremadlyinlove,intoafunctionalmribrainscanner.17whoweremadlyinloveandtheirlovewasaccepted;and15whoweremadlyinloveandtheyhadjustbeendumped.andsoiwanttotellyouaboutthatfirst,andthengoonintowhereithinkloveisgoing. "what'tistolove?
3、"shakespearesaid.ithinkourancestors--ithinkhumanbeingshavebeenwonderingaboutthisquestionsincetheysataroundtheircampfiresorlayandwatchedthestarsamillionyearsago.istartedoutbytryingtofigureoutwhatromanticlovewasbylookingatthelast45yearsofresearchon--justthepsycho
4、logicalresearch--andasitturnsout,there'saveryspecificgroupofthingsthathappenwhenyoufallinlove.thefirstthingthathappensiswhaticall--apersonbeginstotakeonwhaticall,"specialmeaning."asatruckdriveroncesaidtome,正所谓“跨过断桥一小步,迈出人生一大步”这是我们经过断桥的时候教练给我们说的一句话,也是我对这次拓展训练的最大
5、感悟!为期两天的拓展训练于昨天下午顺利落下帷幕,剩下的是满身的无力和疼痛,但是这次训练给了我一次终身难忘的经历,更给了我一笔宝贵的精神财富hesaid,"theworldhadanewcenter,andthatcenterwasmaryanne." georgebernardshawsaiditalittledifferently.hesaid,"loveconsistsofoverestimatingthedifferencesbetweenonewomanandanother."andindeed,that'
6、swhatwedo.(laughter)andthenyoujustfocusonthisperson.youcanlistwhatyoudon'tlikeaboutthem,butthenyousweepthatasideandfocusonwhatyoudo.aschaucersaid,"loveisblind." intryingtounderstandromanticlove,idecidediwouldreadpoetryfromallovertheworld,andijustwanttogiveyouo
7、neveryshortpoemfromeighth-centurychina,becauseit'sanalmostperfectexampleofamanwhoisfocusedtotallyonaparticularwoman.it'salittlebitlikewhenyouaremadlyinlovewithsomebodyandyouwalkintoaparkinglot--theircarisdifferentfromeveryothercarintheparkinglot.theirwineglassa
8、tdinnerisdifferentfromeveryotherwineglassatthedinnerparty.andinthiscase,amangothookedonabamboosleepingmat. anditgoeslikethis.it'sbyaguycalledyuanchen:"icannotbeartoputawayt