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1、TED英语演讲稿：解密爱情与出轨 i'dliketotalktodayaboutthetwobiggestsocialtrendsinthecomingcentury,andperhapsinthenext10,000years.butiwanttostartwithmyworkonromanticlove,becausethat'smymostrecentwork.whatiandmycolleaguesdidwasput32people,whoweremadlyinlove,intoafunctional
2、mribrainscanner.17whoweremadlyinloveandtheirlovewasaccepted;and15whoweremadlyinloveandtheyhadjustbeendumped.andsoiwanttotellyouaboutthatfirst,andthengoonintowhereithinkloveisgoing. "what'tistolove?"shakespearesaid.ithinkourancestors--ithinkhumanbeingshavebe
3、enwonderingaboutthisquestionsincetheysataroundtheircampfiresorlayandwatchedthestarsamillionyearsago.istartedoutbytryingtofigureoutwhatromanticlovewasbylookingatthelast45yearsofresearchon--justthepsychologicalresearch--andasitturnsout,there'saveryspecificgrou
4、pofthingsthathappenwhenyoufallinlove.thefirstthingthathappensiswhaticall--apersonbeginstotakeonwhaticall,"specialmeaning."asatruckdriveroncesaidtome,hesaid,"theworldhadanewcenter,andthatcenterwasmaryanne." georgebernardshawsaiditalittledifferently.hesaid,"l
5、oveconsistsofoverestimatingthedifferencesbetweenonewomanandanother."andindeed,that'swhatwedo.(laughter)andthenyoujustfocusonthisperson.youcanlistwhatyoudon'tlikeaboutthem,butthenyousweepthatasideandfocusonwhatyoudo.aschaucersaid,"loveisblind." intryingtound
6、erstandromanticlove,idecidediwouldreadpoetryfromallovertheworld,andijustwanttogiveyouoneveryshortpoemfromeighth-centurychina,becauseit'sanalmostperfectexampleofamanwhoisfocusedtotallyonaparticularwoman.it'salittlebitlikewhenyouaremadlyinlovewithsomebodyandyo
7、uwalkintoaparkinglot--theircarisdifferentfromeveryothercarintheparkinglot.theirwineglassatdinnerisdifferentfromeveryotherwineglassatthedinnerparty.andinthiscase,amangothookedonabamboosleepingmat. anditgoeslikethis.it'sbyaguycalledyuanchen:"icannotbeartoputa
8、waythebamboosleepingmat.thenightibroughtyouhome,iwatchedyourollitout."hebecamehookedonasleepingmat,probablybecauseofelevatedactivityofdopamineinhisbrain,justlikewithyouandme.butanyway,notonlydoe
