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1、TED英语演讲稿：解密爱情与出轨 i'dliketotalktodayaboutthetwobiggestsocialtrendsinthecomingcentury,andperhapsinthenext10,000years.butiwanttostartwithmyworkonromanticlove,becausethat'smymostrecentwork.whatiandmycolleaguesdidwasput32people,whoweremadlyinlove,intoafunctionalmribrainscanner.17whoweremadlyinloveandth
2、eirlovewasaccepted;and15whoweremadlyinloveandtheyhadjustbeendumped.andsoiwanttotellyouaboutthatfirst,andthengoonintowhereithinkloveisgoing. "what'tistolove?"shakespearesaid.ithinkourancestors--ithinkhumanbeingshavebeenwonderingaboutthisquestionsincetheysataroundtheircampfiresorlayandwatchedthestar
3、samillionyearsago.istartedoutbytryingtofigureoutwhatromanticlovewasbylookingatthelast45yearsofresearchon--justthepsychologicalresearch--andasitturnsout,there'saveryspecificgroupofthingsthathappenwhenyoufallinlove.thefirstthingthathappensiswhaticall--apersonbeginstotakeonwhaticall,"specialmeaning."a
4、satruckdriveroncesaidtome,hesaid,"theworldhadanewcenter,andthatcenterwasmaryanne." georgebernardshawsaiditalittledifferently.hesaid,"loveconsistsofoverestimatingthedifferencesbetweenonewomanandanother."andindeed,that'swhatwedo.(laughter)andthenyoujustfocusonthisperson.youcanlistwhatyoudon'tlikeabo
5、utthem,butthenyousweepthatasideandfocusonwhatyoudo.aschaucersaid,"loveisblind." intryingtounderstandromanticlove,idecidediwouldreadpoetryfromallovertheworld,andijustwanttogiveyouoneveryshortpoemfromeighth-centurychina,becauseit'sanalmostperfectexampleofamanwhoisfocusedtotallyonaparticularwoman.it'
6、salittlebitlikewhenyouaremadlyinlovewithsomebodyandyouwalkintoaparkinglot--theircarisdifferentfromeveryothercarintheparkinglot.theirwineglassatdinnerisdifferentfromeveryotherwineglassatthedinnerparty.andinthiscase,amangothookedonabamboosleepingmat. anditgoeslikethis.it'sbyaguycalledyuanchen:"icann
7、otbeartoputawaythebamboosleepingmat.thenightibroughtyouhome,iwatchedyourollitout."hebecamehookedonasleepingmat,probablybecauseofelevatedactivityofdopamineinhisbrain,justlikewithyouandme.butanyway,notonlydoe
