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1、TED英语演讲稿：解密爱情与出轨从一开始，我就算计好了一切，只是，这场游戏中，我们两败俱伤。--UUMOB i’dliketotalktodayaboutthetwobiggestsocialtrendsinthecomingcentury,andperhapsinthenext10,000years.butiwanttostartwithmyworkonromanticlove,becausethat’smymostrecentwork.whatiandmycolleaguesdidwasput3
2、2people,whoweremadlyinlove,intoafunctionalmribrainscanner.17whoweremadlyinloveandtheirlovewasaccepted;and15whoweremadlyinloveandtheyhadjustbeendumped.andsoiwanttotellyouaboutthatfirst,andthengoonintowhereithinkloveisgoing. ”what‘tistolove?”shakespeares
3、aid.ithinkourancestors--ithinkhumanbeingshavebeenwonderingaboutthisquestionsincetheysataroundtheircampfiresorlayandwatchedthestarsamillionyearsago.istartedoutbytryingtofigureoutwhatromanticlovewasbylookingatthelast45yearsofresearchon--justthepsychologic
4、alresearch--andasitturnsout,there’saveryspecificgroupofthingsthathappenwhenyoufallinlove.thefirstthingthathappensiswhaticall--apersonbeginstotakeonwhaticall,“specialmeaning.”asatruckdriveroncesaidtome,hesaid,“theworldhadanewcenter,andthatcenterwasmaryan
5、ne.” georgebernardshawsaiditalittledifferently.hesaid,“loveconsistsofoverestimatingthedifferencesbetweenonewomanandanother.”andindeed,that’swhatwedo.(laughter)andthenyoujustfocusonthisperson.youcanlistwhatyoudon’tlikeaboutthem,butthenyousweepthatasidea
6、ndfocusonwhatyoudo.aschaucersaid,“loveisblind.” intryingtounderstandromanticlove,idecidediwouldreadpoetryfromallovertheworld,andijustwanttogiveyouoneveryshortpoemfromeighth-centurychina,becauseit’sanalmostperfectexampleofamanwhoisfocusedtotallyonaparti
7、cularwoman.it’salittlebitlikewhenyouaremadlyinlovewithsomebodyandyouwalkintoaparkinglot--theircarisdifferentfromeveryothercarintheparkinglot.theirwineglassatdinnerisdifferentfromeveryotherwineglassatthedinnerparty.andinthiscase,amangothookedonabamboosle
8、epingmat. anditgoeslikethis.it’sbyaguycalledyuanchen:“icannotbeartoputawaythebamboosleepingmat.thenightibroughtyouhome,iwatchedyourollitout.”hebecamehookedonasleepingmat,probablybecauseofelevatedactivityofdopamineinhisbrain,just
