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1、01.RemembertosaythankyouHi.I'mheretotalktoyouabouttheimportanceofpraise,admirationandthankyou,andhavingitbespecificandgenuine.AndthewayIgotinterestedinthiswas,Inoticedinmyself,whenIwasgrowingup,anduntilaboutafewyearsago,thatIwouldwanttosaythankyoutosomeone,Iwouldwanttopraisethem,Iwouldwa
2、nttotakeintheirpraiseofmeandI'djuststopit.AndIaskedmyself,why?Ifeltshy,Ifeltembarrassed.Andthenmyquestionbecame,amItheonlyonewhodoesthis?So,Idecidedtoinvestigate.I'mfortunateenoughtoworkintherehabfacility,soIgettoseepeoplewhoarefacinglifeanddeathwithaddiction.Andsometimesitcomesdowntosom
3、ethingassimpleas,theircorewoundistheirfatherdiedwithouteversayinghe'sproudofthem.Butthen,theyhearfromallthefamilyandfriendsthatthefathertoldeverybodyelsethathewasproudofhim,buthenevertoldtheson.It'sbecausehedidn'tknowthathissonneededtohearit.Somyquestionis,whydon'tweaskforthethingsthatwe
4、need?Iknowagentleman,marriedfor25years,who'slongingtohearhiswifesay,"Thankyouforbeingthebreadwinner,soIcanstayhomewiththekids,"butwon'task.Iknowawomanwho'sgoodatthis.She,onceaweek,meetswithherhusbandandsays,"I'dreallylikeyoutothankmeforallthesethingsIdidinthehouseandwiththekids."Andhegoe
5、s,"Oh,thisisgreat,thisisgreat."Andpraisereallydoeshavetobegenuine,butshetakesresponsibilityforthat.Andafriendofmine,April,whoI'vehadsincekindergarten,shethanksherchildrenfordoingtheirchores.Andshesaid,"Whywouldn'tIthankit,eventhoughthey'resupposedtodoit?"So,thequestionis,whywasIblockingi
6、t?Whywereotherpeopleblockingit?WhycanIsay,"I'lltakemysteakmediumrare,Ineedsizesixshoes,"butIwon'tsay,"Wouldyoupraisemethisway?"Andit'sbecauseI'mgivingyoucriticaldataaboutme.I'mtellingyouwhereI'minsecure.I'mtellingyouwhereIneedyourhelp.AndI'mtreatingyou,myinnercircle,likeyou'retheenemy.Be
7、causewhatcanyoudowiththatdata?Youcouldneglectme.Youcouldabuseit.Oryoucouldactuallymeetmyneed.AndItookmybikeintothebikestore--Ilovethis--samebike,andthey'ddosomethingcalled"truing"thewheels.Theguysaid,"Youknow,whenyoutruethewheels,it'sgoingtomakethebikesomuchbetter."Igetth
