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1、BodyLanguageTheverybestinstrumentthereisforfindingoutwhatisgoingonwithapersonisherbody.Thestateofthebodywillbeareflectionofheroverallstate.Thatinformationisveryuseful,bothtothepersonherselfandtoaprocessfacilitator.Thebestthingisifthepersonherselfisintunewithherbodyandshefeelswhatisgoingonwith
2、it.Butevenifshedoesn't,thefacilitatorwillbeabletopickupmuchinformation.Aperson'sexternalbodylanguagespeaksvolumes.Byobservingsomebody'sposture,eyemovements,breathingandskincolor,youcangaininformationaboutwhatsheisdoinginhermind.Youcangetthesameinformationbylisteningtothequalitiesofhertoneofvo
3、ice.Andthisiswithoutbeingpsychic,justbylookingandlistening.IfyouaddabitofESPtoit,itjustgetsmucheasier.Bodylanguageisabigsubjectandtomasterthereadingofittoperfectionrequiresagooddealoftrainingandexperience.Herewewilljustpresentsomeofthemostpracticalthingsyoucannotice.Intheabsenceofknowingwhatd
4、ifferentbodymovementsmean,youcansimplynoticewhenthereisachangeintheclient'sbody.Forexample,ifsheissittingperfectlystillandsuddenlystartstwitchingormovinghereyes-thatisachange.Orifshechangesherrateofbreathing-thatisachange.Let'ssayyouhaveaskedtheclienttoclosehereyesandmovebacktoapastincident.A
5、tfirstsheisjustsittingstill,hereyesnotmoving.Butsuddenlyyoucanseehereyesmovingbehindhereyelidsandherheadisjerkingalittlebitandmaybeherbreathinggetsfaster.Well,thatmostlikelymeansthatshefoundanincident.Interestingly,shemightnotherselfhavenoticedthat.Subconsciouslyshehastheincidentrightthere,bu
6、tconsciouslyshemightnothaveacknowledgedit.So,ifshedoesn'tstartspeakingbyherselfyoucansay"What'sthat?",or"Whatdoyousee?"Ifwearedealingwithanincident,thebodywilloftenshowwhatisinit,orhowsherelatestoit.Ifhereyeballsaremoving,itmeansthatthereissomethingtolookat.Ifshesuddenlybreathespantingly,itme
7、anssomethingexcitingorstressfulisgoingon.Iftheclientisleaningforward,sheisprobablyintotheincident,involveddirectlyintheaction.Ifsheisleaningback,sheisprobablyseeingitfromadistance.Youcannotbesure,justfromaspecificbodymotion,whatisgoingon.Buti