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1、BodyLanguageTheverybestinstrumentthereisforfindingoutwhatisgoingonwithapersonisherbody.Thestateofthebodywillbeareflectionofheroverallstate.Thatinformationisveryuseful,bothtothepersonherselfandtoaprocessfacilitator.Thebestthingisifthepersonherselfisintunewithherbodyandshe
2、feelswhatisgoingonwithit.Butevenifshedoesn't,thefacilitatorwillbeabletopickupmuchinformation.Aperson'sexternalbodylanguagespeaksvolumes.Byobservingsomebody'sposture,eyemovements,breathingandskincolor,youcangaininformationaboutwhatsheisdoinginhermind.Youcangetthesameinfor
3、mationbylisteningtothequalitiesofhertoneofvoice.Andthisiswithoutbeingpsychic,justbylookingandlistening.IfyouaddabitofESPtoit,itjustgetsmucheasier.Bodylanguageisabigsubjectandtomasterthereadingofittoperfectionrequiresagooddealoftrainingandexperience.Herewewilljustpresents
4、omeofthemostpracticalthingsyoucannotice.Intheabsenceofknowingwhatdifferentbodymovementsmean,youcansimplynoticewhenthereisachangeintheclient'sbody.Forexample,ifsheissittingperfectlystillandsuddenlystartstwitchingormovinghereyes-thatisachange.Orifshechangesherrateofbreathi
5、ng-thatisachange.Let'ssayyouhaveaskedtheclienttoclosehereyesandmovebacktoapastincident.Atfirstsheisjustsittingstill,hereyesnotmoving.Butsuddenlyyoucanseehereyesmovingbehindhereyelidsandherheadisjerkingalittlebitandmaybeherbreathinggetsfaster.Well,thatmostlikelymeansthats
6、hefoundanincident.Interestingly,shemightnotherselfhavenoticedthat.Subconsciouslyshehastheincidentrightthere,butconsciouslyshemightnothaveacknowledgedit.So,ifshedoesn'tstartspeakingbyherselfyoucansay"What'sthat?",or"Whatdoyousee?"Ifwearedealingwithanincident,thebodywillof
7、tenshowwhatisinit,orhowsherelatestoit.Ifhereyeballsaremoving,itmeansthatthereissomethingtolookat.Ifshesuddenlybreathespantingly,itmeanssomethingexcitingorstressfulisgoingon.Iftheclientisleaningforward,sheisprobablyintotheincident,involveddirectlyintheaction.Ifsheisleanin
8、gback,sheisprobablyseeingitfromadistance.Youcannotbesure,justfromaspecificbodymotion,whatisgoingon.Buti
