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1、打开心门拥抱生活 Weoftencloseourselvesoffwhentraumaticeventshappeninourlives;insteadoflettingtheworldsoftenus,weletitdriveusdeeperintoourselves.Wetrytodeflectthehurtandpainbypretendingitdoesn’texist,butalthoughwecantrythisallwewant,intheend,wecan’thidefromourselves.Wene
2、edtolearntoopenourheartstothepotentialsoflifeandlettheworldsoftenus. 生活发生不幸时,我们常常会关上心门;世界不仅没能慰藉我们,反倒使我们更加消沉。我们假装一切仿佛都不曾发生,以此试图忘却伤痛,可就算隐藏得再好,最终也还是骗不了自己。既然如此,何不尝试打开心门,拥抱生活中的各种可能,让世界感化我们呢? Wheneverwestarttoletourfearsandseriousnessgetthebestofus,weshouldtakeastep
3、backandre-evaluateourbehavior.Theitemslistedbelowaresixwaysyoucanopenyourheartmorefullyandcompletely. 当恐惧与焦虑来袭时,我们应该退后一步,重新反思自己的言行。下面六个方法有助于你更完满透彻地敞开心扉。 1.Breatheintopain直面痛苦 Wheneverapainfulsituationarisesinyourlife,trytoembraceitinsteadofrunningawayortrying
4、tomaskthehurt.Whenthesadnessstrikes,takeadeepbreathandleanintoit.Whenwerunawayfromsadnessthat’sunfoldinginourlives,itgetsstrongerandmorereal.Wetakeanemotionthat’sfleetingandmakeitasolidevent,insteadofsomethingthatpassesthroughus. 当生活中出现痛苦的事情时,别再逃跑或隐藏痛苦,试着拥抱它吧;当
5、悲伤来袭时,试着深呼吸,然后直面它。如果我们一味逃避生活中的悲伤,悲伤只会变得更强烈更真实——悲伤原本只是稍纵即逝的情绪,我们却固执地耿耿于怀。 Byutilizingourbreathwesoftenourexperiences.Ifwedamthemup,ourliveswillstagnate,butwhenwekeepthemflowing,weallowmorenewnessandgreaterexperiencestoblossom. 深呼吸能减缓我们的感受。屏住呼吸,生活停滞;呼出呼吸,更多新奇与经历
6、又将拉开序幕。 2.Embracetheuncomfortable拥抱不安 Weallknowwhatthattwingeofanxietyfeelslike.Weknowhowfearfeelsinourbodies:thetensioninournecks,thetightnessinourstomachs,etc.Wecanpracticeleaningintothesefeelingsofdiscomfortandletthemshowuswhereweneedtogo.我们都经历过焦灼的煎熬感,也都感受过
7、恐惧造成的生理反应:脖子僵硬、胃酸翻腾。其实,我们有能力面对这些痛苦的感受,从中领悟到出路。 Theinitialimpulseistorunaway—totryandsuppressthesefeelingsbynotacknowledgingthem.Whenwedothis,wecloseourselvesofftothepartsofourlivesthatweneedtoexperiencemost.Thenexttimeyouhavethisfeelingofbeingtrulyuncomfortable
8、,doyourselfafavorandleanintothefeeling.Actinspiteofthefear. 我们的第一反应总是逃避——以为否认不安情绪的存在就能万事大吉,可这也恰好妨碍了我们经历最需要的生活体验。下次感到不安时,不管有多害怕,也请试着勇敢面对吧。 3.Askyourheartwhatitwants