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1、《哈佛情商课》EQCURRICULUMOFHARVARD20150924很久不曾看书了，这次借着为小哲营造阅读气氛的契机，来到了多年前奋斗过杭州图书馆。林立的书架，却不知道什么书适合自己，太久太久没有看书啦。以前一直不敢看心理学类的书本，突破下自己吧，于是《哈佛情商课》被我带回家中。自认为自己智商有余，而情商不足。看心里学类的书是痛苦的，不光是因为抽象，更因为你需要直面自己，特别是自己的弱点，痛点。不过哈佛课真不是盖的，真知浅显易懂，是不折不扣的心灵鸡汤，滋补。这次终于比较明确知道情商是个什么东西啦，是对自己情绪的控制及对他人情绪的观察力。比起智商来，情商可有用多啦
2、，智商决定的是人的能力，情商则是会改变命运的。呃，明确承认自己确实是情商比较低下呢。对家人特别是老公和儿子，陌生人，工作伙伴，常常HOLD不住自己的情绪，一冲动就脾气上来了。这可能是我不能成功的大障碍吧。重启我的下半生，谨记：1、山羊OR老虎，是由周边的环境及伙伴决定的。一直的山羊在一起，凶猛威武老虎也变成柔弱温顺。2、tobemyself,youareyourown.别人怎么说只能做参考，决定在于自己。Noonecantakeresponsibilityofyourlife,whateversuccessorfailure.3，看不到目标比死亡更可怕。军阀处死犯人
3、的两种选择。4，怀疑自己，你将失去成为苏格拉底的机会5，笑一笑6，想说服对方得先知道他到底想要什么《今天我要学会控制情绪》TODAYIWILLBEMATEROFMYEMOTIONSToDearfortheWhistle20151008WhenIwasachildofsevenyearsold,myfriends,onaholiday,filledmypocketswithcoppers.Iwentdirectlytotheshopwheretheysoldtoysforchildren;andbeingcharmedbythesoundofawhistle,that
4、Imetbythewayinthehandsofanotherboy,Ivoluntarilyofferedandgaveallmymoneyforone.Ithencamehome,andwentwhistlingalloverthehouse,muchpleasedwithmywhistle，butdisturbingallthefamily.Mybrothers,mysistersandmycousins,understandingthebargainIhadmade,toldmethatIpaidfourtimesasmuchasitwasworth,put
5、meinmindwhatgoodthingsImighthaveboughtwiththerestofthemoney;andlaughedatmesomuchformyfolly,thatIcriedwithvexation;andthereflectiongavememorechagrinthanthewhistlegavemepleasure.Thisishoweverafterwardsofusetome,theimpressioncontinuingonmymind;Sothatoften,whenIwastemptedtobuysomeunnecessa
6、rything,Isaidtomyself,“Don’tgivetoomuchforthewhistle”;andIsavedmymoney.AsIgrewup,cameintotheworld,andobservedtheactionsofmen,IthoughtImetwithmany,verymany,who“gavetoomuchforthewhistle”.WhenImetamanofpleasure,whodidnottrytoimprovehismindorhisfortunebutmerelydevotedhimselftohavingagoodti
7、me,perhapsneglectinghishealth,“Mistakenman’’,saidI,”youareprovidingpainforyourself,insteadofpleasure;youarepayingtoodeartoyourwhistle”.WhenIsawsomeonefondofappearancewhohadfineclothes,finehouses,finefurniture,fineequipages,allabovehisfortune,andforwhichhehadrunintodebt,andendshiscare
