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1、“BestSexEver”Q&ASessionJuniorHigh(BOYS)“OK,soI’mgoingoutwiththisgirl,butIonlylikeherlikeasister,butshelikesmewaymore,likesomuch.Iwanttobreakupwithher,butI’mafraidcause,like,Idon’twanttohurtherandseehercry.AndnowlikethegirlthatitisthatIreallylike,likesme,there
2、’smorethatIdon’tfeellikesayingbutwhatshouldIdo?”Inthissituation,soonerisalwaysbetter.It’sgoingtohurtwhetheryouwaitlongerornot.Talkwithherinloveandbeconsiderateandsensitivetohowshewillfeel,butbehonestwithher.“HowdoIknowifsomeonelikesmewithoutlookingstupidorrev
3、ealingthatIlikethem?”Thisistheageoldquestion.Youcanlearntoreadmindsoryoucanplayitcoolandjustask.Eitherway,it’sprobablygoingtogetoutsoonerorlater,sobehonestanddon’tputtomuchweightonwhatothersthinkofyou.Beconfidentinwhoyouare.“Whydopeoplemakesexsoundlikesuchaga
4、mewhenitisreallyabigdeal?”Peoplearesinners.WithsincomesadistortionofGod’splan.“DidJesuseverhaveadatingrelationship?”TheBibledoesnotsayonewayoranother.“Datingrelationships”backthenwereVERYdifferentthentheyarenow.Bottomlineisthatnobodyknowsforsure.Wecanbesureof
5、twothingsthough:1)Jesuswastemptedjustlikeus(Matthew4:1-11,1Corinthians10:13)and2)Jesusneversinnedinthattemptation(1Peter2:21-22,1John3:5).“What’sthebestwaytofindthatperfectsomeone?”Beyourself,behonestwithpeopleaboutyourfeelingsandultimatelytrustGodandwaitonhi
6、m.“IfI’vealreadylookedatporn,howcanIgethealedfrommy‘scars’?”Thefirststepistoadmitit’saproblem.ThenconfessittoGodandaskforhisforgiveness.Weareforgivenfromoursinsalready.(SeeMatthew26:28,Acts13:38,Romans5:9-11,6:22)Buthealingcomesthroughrepentance;basicallyturn
7、ing180degreesfromthewayweregoing.Ifyoulookedatporn,thenstop.That’sturning180degrees.Insteadoffillingyourheart/mindwithporn,fillitwithGodthroughworship,readingtheBible,andpraying.Youneedtomakeboundarieswithyourself(i.e.getthecomputeroutfromyourroom,setupfilter
8、sorparentalcontrolswiththet.v.,don’tgotothestoreswhereyoubuyit,etc…)“Howdoyoumakeboundaries?”FollowPhilippians4:8.Ismakingoutfor45minuteswithyourgirlfriendpure?Noble?Admirable?Praiseworth