true joys in life

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1、TrueJoysinLife　　Menciusoncesaid，inasense，therearethreetruejoysthroughouttheworld.Itcomposesofthefirstjoythatbothofyourparentsarestilllivingandyourbrothersareingoodhealth，whichbelongstothehumanrelations’joy；neitherbeingashamedtotheheavennorhumansmakesupthesecondjoy，thethirdjoyishavingtheopportunityto

2、educatethetalentedandexcellentstudents，whichisalsocalledtheteachingjoy.Thejoyofhuman’sinterpersonalrelationshipmaygobeyondthefactthatyourparentsandbrothersaresafeandsound，butitalsocountsifyourwifeiswillingtosharethehappinessandsorrowwithyouinthesameboat；youroffspringcanlearnsomethingfromyoureducatio

3、n；yourfamilymemberswillliveinharmonywithyou；thefemaleinyourfamilycanmeetadecentspouseandleadahappylife.Fromtheprospectiveofinterpersonalrelationship，itcan’tbecalledthetruejoywithoneofthreeprinciplesunfinished，yourheartfeltjoyisnotjustfeelingnoshametotheheaven，butalsoyourmoralvaluesoughttoconformwith

4、thegreats、heavenandearth，onlybythisdegreecanthejoybepartofhumaninterpersonalrelationshipinthemeaning.Iftherearesomedifferencesinyourmoralvalueswiththegreats、heavenandearth，thejoyismerelyonthecontrary.Asfortheteachingjoy，whichisn’tonlytohavetheopportunitytoeducatethetalentedandexcellentstudents，butal

5、sotolearnfromthosewhodoesbetterthanyouinknowledge、moralandbehavior，it’sagreatpleasuretotakethemasyourteachersandlearnsomethingfromthem.Thelistedthreefactorsarethetruejoysintheworld.Itwillhavetroubledandannoyedyoualotratherthancheeryouupifyoutakeotherthingssuchasthewealthandrankasjoy，thewisemanwillno

6、tvaluethejoywhichthemajorityhavechased.　　Thewell-knownscholarZhouDunyiinSongdynastyoncesaid，YanZi，whohadlivedapoorlifeinashabbylanewithjustabowloffoodandagronddipperofwater.Hedidn’tchangehiswayoflifewhichtheotherscouldn’tstandatall.Afterall，themajorityofhumanbeingswouldliketogoinforthewealthandrank.

7、However，neitherdidYanZienvynorgoafterthesematters，heregardedhispovertyasjoyonthecontrary.Whatuniquethoughtdidhehaveunderthiscircumstance？Eventhoughthereweresomuchwealthandranktogoafter，YanZididn’tfoll