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1、【警惕】人际关系中的隐形攻击（Vigilanceagainstinvisibleattacksinhumanrelationships）VigilanceagainstinvisibleattacksinhumanrelationshipsManyrelationshipsareunbalanced,onesideisobviouslystrong,andtheotherisinaweakposition.Andthestrongoneisaggressive,anddoesnotallowthe
2、vulnerabletoexpresshisfeelings.However,anyonewhoisattackedwillbeangryandwanttofightback.Nomatterhowunbalancedarelationshipis,thisisnoexception.Butinaseriousimbalance,theweaksidedarenotexpressanger,darenotfightback,theirconsciousnessandsubconsciouswill
3、evenbeseriouslydivided,notawareoftheiranger.Butonceangerisgenerated,itisboundtofindacatharticoutlet.Sotheweakpartycannotdirectlyexpressanger,theyareabsolutelynotcontrarytothestrongsideoftheabsoluterequirements,daretochallengethestrongsideofthewill,yes
4、theyarepowerfulattackunderthestrongside,wellbehaved,not.However,theymayhavesomepuzzlingsituations.Simplethings,theyscrewedup;promisesthatwereeasytocarryout,andtheydidn'tkeeptheirword......Inshort,theyoftenmakesomeratherbafflingmistakes,sothatastrongPa
5、rtystampwithrage.WhenastrongPartystampwithrage,itisseverelyinvaded.Thisisalsothecounterattackoftheweakside,andalsothedesireoftheweakpartyinthesubconscious.Theyhaveexpressedstronganger,evendidnotshowalittleangry,buttheymakesomemistakesbythewaytoreachra
6、therbafflingeffect,butastrongsidewithangeranddirectattacknotwhattwo.Thispsychologicalmechanism,calledpassiveattack,isoftenreferredtoasaninvisibleattack".Stealthattackshaunthomes.Becausetherelationshipbetweenparentsandchildren,aswellastherelationshipbe
7、tweenhusbandandwife,themostlikelytolosebalance,andparentsaretheeasiesttoattackthechildontheonehandinthenameoflove,butalsoabsolutelylimitthechild'scounterattack.However,nomatterhowgreatthenameoftheattackis,thechildrenwhohavebeenattackedhaveanger,andthe
8、yallhavetofindwaystoventtheirangerandfightback.PassiveattackistheweaponoftheweakInfact,nomatterhowcloseandspecialtherelationshipis,whenyoushowaverystrongattackontheotherperson,theangerproducedbytheotherpartyinthefirsttimeisanger.Manypeoplegrow
