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1、b当我真正开始爱自己查理卓别林(写于70岁生日当天)当我真正开始爱自己,我才认识到,所有的痛苦和情感的折磨,都只是提醒我:活着,不要违背自己的本心。今天我明白了,这叫做“真实”。当我真正开始爱自己,我才懂得,把自己的愿望强加于人,是多么的无礼,就算我知道,时机并不成熟,那人也还没有做好准备,就算那个人是我自己,今天我明白了,这叫做“尊重”。当我真正开始爱自己,我不再渴求不同的人生,我知道任何发生在我身边的事情,b都是对我成长的邀请。如今,我称之为“成熟”。当我真正开始爱自己,我才明白,我其实一直都在正确的时间,正确的地方,发生的一切都恰如其分。由此我得以平静。今天我明白了,这
2、叫做“自信”。当我开始真正爱自己,我开始远离一切不健康的东西。不论是饮食和人物,还是事情和环境,我远离一切让我远离本真的东西。从前我把这叫做“追求健康的自私自利”,但我今天明白了,这是“自爱”。b当我开始真正爱自己,我不再继续沉溺于过去,也不再为明天而忧虑,现在我只活在一切正在发生的当下,今天,我活在此时此地,如此日复一日。这叫做“完美”。当我开始真正爱自己,我明白,我的思虑让我变得贫乏和病态,但当我唤起了心灵的力量,理智就变成了一个重要的伙伴,这种组合我怕称之为“心的智慧”。我们无须再害怕自己和他人的分歧,矛盾和问题,因为即使星星有时也会碰在一起,形成新的世界,今天我明白,
3、这就是“生命”。bAsIBegantoLoveMyselfbyCharlieChaplinAsIbegantolovemyselfIfoundthatanguishandemotionalsufferingareonlywarningsignsthatIwaslivingagainstmyowntruth.Today,Iknow,thisis“Authenticity”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIunderstoodhowmuchitcanofferedsomebodyifItrytoforcemydesiresonthisperson,eventhoughI
4、knewthetimewasnotrightandthepersonwasnotreadyforit,andeventhoughthispersonwasme.TodayIcallit“Respect”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIstoppedcravingforadifferentlife,andIcouldseethateverythingthatsurroundedmewasinvitingmetogrow.TodayIcallit“Maturity”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIunderstoodthatatanycircumstanc
5、e,Iamintherightplaceattherighttime,andeverythinghappensattheexactlyrightmoment.SobIcouldbecalm.TodayIcallit“Self-confidence”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIquitstealingmyowntime,andIstoppeddesigninghugeprojectsforthefuture.Today,Ionlydowhatbringsmejoyandhappiness,thingsIlovetodoandthatmakemyheartchee
6、r,andIdotheminmyownwayandinmyownwayandinmyownrhythm.TodayIcallit“Simplicity”.AsIbegantolovemyselfIfreedmyselfofanythingthatisnogoodformyhealthfood,people,things,situations,andeverythingthatdrewmedownandawayfrommyself.AtfirstIcalledthisattitudeahealthyegoism.TodayIknowitis“Loveofoneself”.AsI
7、begantolovemyselfIquittryingtoalwaysberight,andeversinceIwaswronglessofthetime.TodayIdiscoveredthatis“Modesty”.bAsIbegantolovemyselfIrefusedtogoonlivinginthepastandworryingaboutthefuture.Now,Ionlyliveforthemoment,whereeverythingishappening.TodayIliveeach