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1、职场生存术职场中永远不要说的13句话Inspeakingwithhundredsofexecutivesandseniorleadersoverthepasttwentyyears,certainphrasesconsistentlycomeupascareer-limitingphrasesthatjeopardizeone’sprofessionalimageandpotentialforpromotion.Tothespeakertheymayseemlikeharmlesswords,however,tothelistenertheyrevealamorecriti
2、calissue:Inaworkplacewhereemployersmustbecutting-edge,competitive,andcost-effective,employeeswhousethesephraseswilllikelybereplacedwiththosewhoconveyamorepositiveattitude,collaborativespirit,proactivebehaviorandprofessionaldemeanor.Hereare13phrasesthatshouldbebannedfromtheoffice:通过过去二十年来和诸
3、多高管及领导的交流,我发现有些话在职场中比较禁忌,可能会毁掉一个人的职业形象甚或升职机会。说者可能无意,但听者却会看到更为本质的问题:身处职场,员工必须走在前沿、具有竞争力并能节约成本,说话不当的员工很可能被态度积极、团结协作、主动采取行动并且专业有素的员工所取代。以下13句话就绝不能在办公室讲:Shegotaraise,youdidn’t.Hewasrecognized,youweren’t.Somepeoplehavefoodtoeatwhileothersstarves.Injusticeshappenonthejobandintheworldeveryday.Whe
4、therit’satroublingissueatworkoraseriousproblemfortheplanet,thepointinavoidingthisphraseistobeproactiveabouttheissuesversuscomplaining,orworse,passivelywhining.Instead,documentthefacts,buildacase,andpresentanintelligentargumenttothepersonorgroupwhocanhelpyou.1.“It’snotfair.”她加薪了,你却没有;他受器重了,
5、而你没有。有人温饱就有人挨饿,世界上不公平随处可见,职场也一样。不论是工作碰上麻烦还是地球遇到灾难,要避免不公平,就得积极解决问题,而不是抱怨或者消极发牢骚。相反,你应该实事求是地、向能够提供帮助的人或组织有理有据地来表达意见。1.“这不公平。”Ifyouaskedsomeoneforhelp,andthepersonrepliedwithoneoftheabovephrases,howwouldyoufeel?Asimportantly,whatwoulditsayabouthimorher?Regardlessofhowinconvenientorinappropria
6、tearequestmaybe,itislikelyimportanttotheotherpersonortheywouldnothaveasked.Therefore,asacontributingmemberoftheteam,atoppriorityistocareaboutthesuccessofothers(oratleastactasthoughyoudo).Anunconcerned,detachedandself-servingattitudequicklylimitscareeradvancement.2.“That’snotmyproblem,”“Tha
7、t’snotmyjob,”or“Idon’tgetpaidenoughforthis.”如果你请某人帮忙,却得到上面这样的回答,你会怎么想?重要的是,说出这种话的人又能怎样呢?不管请求多么不方便或不恰当,如果不那么重要,别人也就不必开口求助了。所以,作为团队成员,首先应将他人的成功放第一位(或至少表示一下自己的心意)。冷漠离群、以自我为中心的态度很快便会断送职业发展。2.“那不是我的问题”,“那不是我的工作”或“这不是我的分内之事”。Whichofthesetwostatementssoundsmoreauthor