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1、中西文化差异对比课外空间#"""""""""""""""#"Asisknowntoall,theconceptoffami－"编者注：同学们，新年好！欢迎大家"lyinChinaisverydeep.Wheneverand"走进我们的中西文化差异栏目。本期我"whereveryouare,youarecloselyconnected"们将来重点看看中西两种不同文化的"withyourmotherandfather.Evenifyou"父母和子女之间的关系问题。虽然这是"havegetmarriedorhaveyourownchildren,""个很老的话题，但是通过我们细致地对youstil
2、llivewithyourparents,because""比阅读，相信同学们会有所启示。lookingafterparentsisaresponsibilityin""""""""""""""""##China.众所周知，中国人的家庭观念强。不管Parents你在何时何地，你都和你的父母密切相连。and父母和子女始终是一家人。哪怕你成家立Children业了，另立门户了，和父母仍不分彼此，把赡养和侍奉父母作为自己应尽的责任。intheEastandWest$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$!!!!!!!!!!!!Well,thingsaretotall!!!ydifferentintheUS
3、A.Whenchildrenbecomeadults,parentswillnolongerbringthemup;whenchildren中西父母和子女关系becomeindependent,theywillnotcareabouttheirparents’things,letalonelookaf－差异对比tertheirparents.美国人却不同。子女一成年，就会离巢湖北省洪湖贺龙高级中学高春花编译而飞，父母不再抚养他们；子女一旦独立了，对父母的事情也不再理会了，更别提赡养父母了。$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$Inshopping,thisdifferencecanbere－fle
4、ctedobviously.IfaChinesefamilygoshoppinginastore,parentsmaythinktheyshouldbuythegoodsfortheirchildren.Meanwhile,theindependentchildrenalsore－garditastheirdutytobuythingsandpayforthemoneyfortheiroldparents.Thus,inmostofthesituations,childrenandparentsalwayswanttopaythemoneythemselves.中西文化之间的这种差异在购物方
5、面表现得尤为明显。中国人如果是一大家子去购物，父母认为给小孩买东西是天经地义的，而且已独立的孩子认为为父母付钱是理所当然的。我们常常会碰到这种情形，已成年的子女抢着为年迈的父母付钱，双42中西文化差异对比课外空间方抢来抢去，争个半天。!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!However,thewesternerswillperformdiffer－entlywhentheyaregoingtobuysomething.Thatistosay,parentsandchildrenmanagetheirownmoney.Evensomelittlechildrenhavetopaybythemsel
6、veswhentheyareshopping.Themoneyofthelittlechildrenmaybethegiftmoneytheirparentsgivethemwhentheyhelptodothehousework.但西方人却不同，父母和子女各自理财，互不搭界。甚至有些小孩买东西，也得自掏腰包，用他们帮助父母做家务时挣得的零用钱来支付。!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AChineseshopkeeperonceexpressedhis精神的。experienceabroad,“EverytimewhenIreachmy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!armsandgetthe
7、moneyfromthesmallchildwhoAsforthosechildrenwhobecomeisshorterthanthecounter,Iamabitsad,Iwantadults,theywillnotpayfortheirparents,toaccusethechild’sparentsbesidehim.Whyeither.Whentheyseetheiroldandweakdon’ty
