Chapter 11 - Attraction and Exclu

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1、Chapter11-AttractionandExclusionTheNeedtoBelongAttraction:WhoLikesWhom?RejectionAttractionandExclusionAttractionAnythingthatdrawstwoormorepeopletogetherSocialacceptancePeoplelikeyouandincludeyouintheirgroupsRejection(Socialexclusion)PeopleexcludeyoufromtheirgroupsTradeoffs-Testoster

2、oneABlessingandaCurseTestosteroneisahormoneassociatedwithmasculinityTestosteroneisamixedblessingHightestosteronemenaremoreexciting,butlessreliableInterestedinexploringnewplacesandlesspronetostayathomeTradeoffs-TestosteroneABlessingandaCurseTestosteroneisbettersuitedforfindingmates

3、thanmaintainingstablefamiliesTestosteronereachespeakaroundage20anddeclinesthereafterNewfathers–testosteronedropsTheNeedtoBelongNeedtobelongispowerfuldrivewithinhumanpsycheFormandmaintaincloselastingrelationshipsPeopleusuallyformrelationshipseasilyPeoplearereluctanttoendrelationships

4、TheNeedtoBelongTwoingredientstobelongingnessRegularsocialcontactwithothersClose,stable,mutuallyintimatecontactHavingonewithouttheother=partialsatisfactionTheNeedtoBelongPeopledonotcontinuetoformrelationshipsMostpeopleseekfourtosixcloserelationshipsEveninpeople-richenvironments,mostp

5、eopleformsocialcirclesofaboutsixpeopleNotBelongingIsBadforYouFailuretosatisfyaneedtobelongleadstosignificanthealthproblemsDeathratesarehigheramongpeoplewithoutsocialconnectionsPeoplewithoutagoodsocialnetworkhavemorephysicalandmentalhealthproblemsMajorAntecedentsofAttractionFriendshi

6、psandcloserelationshipsareatornearthetopofthelistofwhatpeoplesaymakesthemhappy;peopledesiretobelikedbyeventhemostcasualofacquaintances.ThePersonNextDoor:ThePropinquityEffectMajorAntecedentsofAttractionPropinquityBeingnearsomeoneonaregularbasisThefindingthatthemoreweseeandinteractwit

7、hpeople,themorelikelytheyaretobecomeourfriends.FamiliarityencourageslikingThePersonNextDoor:ThePropinquityEffectMajorAntecedentsofAttractionThepropinquityeffectworksbecauseofthemereexposureeffect,thefindingthatthemoreexposurewehavetoastimulus,themoreaptwearetolikeit.NeighborsMakeFri

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