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1、IntervertsContrarytowhatmostpeoplethink,anintrovertisnotsimplyapersonwhoisshy.Infact,beingshyhaslittletodowithbeinganintrovert!Shynesshasanelementofapprehension,nervousnessandanxiety,andwhileanintrovertmayalsobeshy,introversionitselfisnotshyness.Basic
2、ally,基本上anintrovertisapersonwhoisenergizedbybeingaloneandwhoseenergyisdrained筋疲力竭的bybeingaroundotherpeople.Introvertsaremoreconcernedwiththeinnerworldofthemind.Theyenjoythinking,exploringtheirthoughtsandfeelings.Theyoftenavoidsocialsituationsbecausebe
3、ingaroundpeopledrainstheirenergy.Thisistrueeveniftheyhavegoodsocialskills.Afterbeingwithpeopleforanylengthoftime,suchasataparty,theyneedtimealoneto"recharge."Whenintrovertswanttobealone,itisnot,byitself,asignofdepression抑郁.Itmeansthattheyeitherneedtor
4、egaintheirenergyfrombeingaroundpeopleorthattheysimplywantthetimetobewiththeirownthoughts.Beingwithpeople,evenpeopletheylikeandarecomfortablewith,canpreventthemfromtheirdesiretobequietlyintrospective内省.Beingintrospective,though,doesnotmeanthatanintrove
5、rtneverhasconversations.However,thoseconversationsaregenerallyaboutideasandconcepts,notaboutwhattheyconsiderthetrivial琐碎的mattersofsocialsmalltalk.Introvertsmakeupabout60%ofthe giftedpopulation butonlyabout25-40%ofthegeneralpopulation.Apprehension忧虑Tod
6、aywemakeroomforaremarkablynarrowrangeofpersonalitystyles.We'retoldthattobegreatistobebold, tobehappyistobesociable.Weseeourselvesasanationofextroverts——whichmeansthatwe'velostsightofwhowereallyare.One-thirdtoone-halfofAmericansareintroverts——inthe oth
7、erwords,oneoutofeverytwoorthreepeopleyouknow.Ifyou'renotanintrovertyourself,youaresurelyraising,managing,marriedto,orcoupledwithone.如今,我们接受的性格类型极其有限。我们被告知,要出众就得有胆识,要快乐就得擅交际。我们自认是个由性格外向者组成的国家——这意味着我们忽视了真实的自我。三分之一到一半的美国人性格内向——换言之,你认识的每两到三个人中就有一个内向者。如果你本
8、人不内向,那你的子女、同事、配偶或伴侣中肯定有一个是内向的。Ifthesestatisticssurpriseyou,that'sprobablybecausesomanypeoplepretendtobeextroverts.Closetintrovertspassundetectedonplaygrounds,inhighschoollockerrooms,andinthecorridorsofcorporateAmerica.Somefooleventhemselves,un