Art.4. How I learned to stop worrying and love the flow教师

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1、Readingarticle4:HowIlearnedtostopworryingandlovetheflowHowILearnedtoStopWorryingandLovetheFlowbyPeggyNelson

2、July23,20101.NothingpreparesyouIthappensunexpectedly.foryourfirsttime.You’reoutwithsomeone,maybeadate,maybejustfriends,everything’sfine,andthenhewhip

3、sitout,rightinfrontofyou—atarestaurant,onthestreet,anywhere.Youtrynottolookatit,youtrytolookabsolutelyanywhereelse—finallyhefinishesandputsitawayandcontinuesonwiththeconversation,justlikenothinghappened.Ormaybeheairsitoutforawhile,oreven—casually—holdsontoi

4、t,incaseitvibrates.(ahooktoarousereaders’interestandintroducethetopic:mobilephone)2.Youknow,thephone.3.Itfitsinyourpocket,whyshouldn’tyoucarryit?It’salwayson,whyshouldn’tyouanswerit?Whyshouldn’tyoutextsomeonetheminuteyouthinkofsomething,orchecktoseewhatthey

5、’redoing?Whyshouldn’tyoubeavailable,toeveryone,allthetime?(advice:usemobilephone)4.Availabilityatadistanceoftenmeansrudenessinperson.Showingupmeansyou’realreadyover.Presencepalesbeforepossibility.Itisn’tgoodenoughtobewithwhoyouarewith,youshouldbeonyourwayto

6、thenextfabulousparty,likeEdieSedgwickandAndyWarhol.Exactlylikethem,infact;it’stheCultoftheNewwritsmall,personalizedItistohallowanythingnew,special,personalized--trandy.Anythingismeaningfulifit’sNew.Anythingisbetterifit’sNew.Anythingisworthhavingifit’sNew.(m

7、oblephoneisvalued—cool,new)5.Exceptthatitisn’t.Idon’tmeanitisn’tnew.Imeanitisn’tjustconsumption.ItisanewetiquetteMobilephoneisnotjustconsumption,itisanewetiquette..Anditischangingnotonlythestorieswetell,buttheenvironmentinwhichtheyaretold—andwhofeelsauthori

8、zedtotellthem.(mobileuse:anewetiquette)6.Atitsmostgeneral,etiquettehelpsusnotkilleachother.Anegotiationbetweentheselfandothers,itsmoothesroughedges,defusesconflict,andenablesacommonstandardofexchangeconductedmoreinwordsthansteel.Ourproximate（latest）legacyis

9、theetiquetteoftheEnlightenment,inwhichtheindividualistheultimate,indivisibleunitofcivilization,andistreatedassuch.Forexample,beingwithsomebodymeansfocusingattentiononthatperson.Yourespectthediscrete（se