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1、HowtoFindTrueLoveWhile“HowtoGetOveraBreakup”wasthenumberonerequestedarticletopicI’vewrittenon,it’snotsurprisingthataclosesecondisthetopicof HowtoFindTrueLove.Here’sanemailfromonereader:“I’verealizedthatoneofmymaingoalsistofindaworthwhileandlongtermrelationship.Inoticedyouhaveentriesonhowto
2、keeparelationshipandonhowtoendarelationshipsowouldyouconsiderwritinganentryonwhatyouperceivetobethebestwaytofindaworthwhilerelationship.Howtoavoidmakingthesamemistakes,overcomingfears,keepingupmotivationafterfailureetc.”–Gary(Dublin,Ireland)Regardlessofourculture,ourlevelofeducationorecono
3、micstatus,atthedepthofallofusarethesamedesires-tolove,tobeloved,andtobehappy.Ofcoursewecouldaddotherdesirestothislist,likemoneyandwealthandfancythings,butwhenyoudrillintothesethings,thereasonforwantingthemissothatwecanappearmoredesirable,andwillhopefullybelovedandaccepted.Ifloveissomething
4、sofundamentallyimportanttous,thenwhyisitthatwehavesomanyissuesandmisunderstandingsintheareaoffindingit?Ithinktheanswerissimple,thatmostofushaveneverbeeneducatedinthisfundamentalareaofourdevelopment.Chancesare,youdidn’tgrowupwithparentswhowererelationshipexperts,andwecertainlydidn’tstudyrel
5、ationshipsinourhighschoolcurriculums.Formostofus,it’sbeenanadventureintrialanderrorandlearningthroughpainandheart-break.Butisthereaneasierway?InlightofValentine’sDayapproachingthisweek,Iamgoingtotouchononeofmyfavoritetopicsofalltime: findinglove.PersonalStoryIspentmostofmytimeinmylateteens
6、andearlytwentiesonfindinglove,orsoIthoughtatthetime.InactualityIwasseekingself-acceptance,approvalandidentity.Iwasdeeplyinsecureandhadagreatfearofbeingalone.Ijumpedfromrelationshiptorelationship,allthewhilesearchingformyself.Buttheactofseekingself-worththroughmyexternalrelationshipstookmef
7、urtherfromthatwhichIlonged.I’vealwaysbeenanambitiouspersonandinadditiontomyjob,I’veoftenworkedonsideprojectsandotherinterests.ButwheneverIfoundmyselfinarelationship,IwoulddropeverythingthatwasimportanttomeandwouldfocusexclusivelyonthepersonIwasdating.Yousee,Id
