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1、HowtoFindTrueLoveWhile“HowtoGetOveraBreakup”wasthenumberonerequestedarticletopicI’vewrittenon,it’snotsurprisingthataclosesecondisthetopicof HowtoFindTrueLove.Here’sanemailfromonereader:“I’verealizedthatoneofmymaingoalsistofindaworthwhileandlongtermrel
2、ationship.Inoticedyouhaveentriesonhowtokeeparelationshipandonhowtoendarelationshipsowouldyouconsiderwritinganentryonwhatyouperceivetobethebestwaytofindaworthwhilerelationship.Howtoavoidmakingthesamemistakes,overcomingfears,keepingupmotivationafterfail
3、ureetc.”–Gary(Dublin,Ireland)Regardlessofourculture,ourlevelofeducationoreconomicstatus,atthedepthofallofusarethesamedesires-tolove,tobeloved,andtobehappy.Ofcoursewecouldaddotherdesirestothislist,likemoneyandwealthandfancythings,butwhenyoudrillintothe
4、sethings,thereasonforwantingthemissothatwecanappearmoredesirable,andwillhopefullybelovedandaccepted.Ifloveissomethingsofundamentallyimportanttous,thenwhyisitthatwehavesomanyissuesandmisunderstandingsintheareaoffindingit?Ithinktheanswerissimple,thatmos
5、tofushaveneverbeeneducatedinthisfundamentalareaofourdevelopment.Chancesare,youdidn’tgrowupwithparentswhowererelationshipexperts,andwecertainlydidn’tstudyrelationshipsinourhighschoolcurriculums.Formostofus,it’sbeenanadventureintrialanderrorandlearningt
6、hroughpainandheart-break.Butisthereaneasierway?InlightofValentine’sDayapproachingthisweek,Iamgoingtotouchononeofmyfavoritetopicsofalltime: findinglove.PersonalStoryIspentmostofmytimeinmylateteensandearlytwentiesonfindinglove,orsoIthoughtatthetime.Inac
7、tualityIwasseekingself-acceptance,approvalandidentity.Iwasdeeplyinsecureandhadagreatfearofbeingalone.Ijumpedfromrelationshiptorelationship,allthewhilesearchingformyself.Buttheactofseekingself-worththroughmyexternalrelationshipstookmefurtherfromthatwhi
8、chIlonged.I’vealwaysbeenanambitiouspersonandinadditiontomyjob,I’veoftenworkedonsideprojectsandotherinterests.ButwheneverIfoundmyselfinarelationship,IwoulddropeverythingthatwasimportanttomeandwouldfocusexclusivelyonthepersonIwasdating.Yousee,Id
