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1、家庭教育专家让孩子受人欢迎的八大魔法(Familyeducationexpertsgivechildrentheeightmagicofpopularity)Familyeducationexpertsletchildrenwelcometheeightmagic.Txt,ifI'mpoor,thereisstillabowlofrice,Iwillletyoueatfirst,allthebestthingsintheworldshouldbemine,includingyou!!CanIsayfirstl
2、ovedie?Comeon,listen.Havetheabilitytotakecareofyourself,orhonestlyletmetakecareofyou!TheeightmagictrickofmakingchildrenpopularThisarticleisselectedfromtheheartofthelightingblog,clicktoviewtheoriginalblog.Letyourchildtobeahonest,kind,helpful,andwelcomebyothe
3、rswho,foralltheparents,inadditiontosetanexample,withactiontoguidethechildrenindailylife,thereareeightlessonstoteachchildren.Big1:fairness-RulesofthegameToughquestion:youandyour5yearoldsonareplayingthegameofplayingdicetoseewho'sthefirsttoreachthefinishline,b
4、uthedoesn'tgobythenumber.Inordertowin,heputshislittleguyonthefinishlineatonce.Althoughyourintentionwastowin,youdon'twanttobepositiveabouthischeating.Simpleinstruction:donotuse"cheating"and"black"thesewordstoblamethechild,buttotellthechildrenplayinggamesshou
5、ldbefairandimpartial,andtohimthatheshouldarriveattheposition.Thetruthcanbeasfollows:"thisisunreasonableandunfairtoothers.".WhenIplaywithme,Icanletyougo,butwhenyouplaywithotherchildren,yougetangrywhenyouwalklikethis,becauseyoudon'tfollowtherulesofthegame."Or
6、saytohim,"thinkaboutit,whatwouldbetheresultifnobodyplayedthegamebytherules?""2:gratitude-thanksforthekindnessofothersToughquestion:whenyouinvitefriendstoyourhome,afriendbringsyouagiftfromyour4yearoldson.Heopenedhiseyesandthenthrewthegiftasidewithoutsaying"t
7、hankyou"andturnedtoplay.Simplelesson:it'stooearlytoexpectafourorfiveyearoldtobegrateful.Yourfriendprobablyknowsthattoo.Sothere'snoneedtomakeamountainoutofamolehill.Tellhim,"comeherefirst,Ihavesomethingtotellyou.".Whentheauntgaveyouapresent,youforgottosay"th
8、ankyou"toher."Ifyoulike,lethimplayfirst,andthenyoucantalkmore.Youcanraisethistopicbeforegoingtobed:"inourhomes,whoeverreceivesagiftshouldsay'thankyou'."Ifyoursontellsyouhedoesn'tlikethegift,thenyoushou