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1、DutchTreatisaslangtermindicatingthateachpersonparticipatinginasharedactivitypaysforhimselforherself,ratherthananyonepersonpayingforanyoneelse.ItisalsocalledDutchdateandGoingDutch.Thereisadelicateetiquette(礼仪,礼节)surroundinggoingDutch.Itisacceptedinsomesituations,suchasbetweennon-in
2、timatefriendsorlessaffluentpeople,butcanbeconsideredstingyinothercircumstances,suchasonaromanticdateoratabusinesslunch.ThetraditionalwaytohandleabillonadateintheWesthasbeenthattheonewhoinvitedtheothertakesthebillandtheinviteemaynotevenknowtheactualpriceofthemeal.Analternativeviewi
3、sthattraditionallypaymenthasalwaysbeenmadebythemale.Fullpaymentbythemaleisstillmostcommon,butisnolongercertain.Thephrase"goingDutch"probablyoriginatesfromDutchetiquette.IntheNetherlands,itisnotunusualtopayseparatelywhengoingoutasagroup.Whendatingina1on1situationhowever,themanwillm
4、ostcommonlypayformealsanddrinks.FeministsupportforDutchdatepracticeDuringtheadventofsecondwavefeminism,thelate1960sand1970s,thewomen'smovementencouragedwomentounderstandaspectsoftheirownpersonallivesasdeeplypoliticized.Manyfeministsinvestigatedtheframeworkandassumptionsoftradition
5、alcourtshiproles.Theysubscribedtotheideathatthereshouldbeequalityofthesexes,notjustlegally,butsociallyandsexually.Theyheldthatitwasmature,empoweringandself-respectingforwomentopaytheirownwayinromanticdates.Theywererejectingtraditionalgenderroleassumptionsthatmenshouldmakemoremoney
6、andshouldpayforaffectionsthroughdinnersandotherdatecosts.Inthisway,womenweremakinganequalinvestmentinthecostofcourtship.Itbecamemorecommonforwomentopaytheirownwayortopayformen'smeals.InternationalpracticesInSwedenandNorway,thepracticeofsplittingthebillinrestaurantsiscommon.Inacour
7、tshipsituationwherebothpartshaveasimilarfinancialstanding,whichiscommonplaceinSweden,thetraditionalcustomofthemanalwayspayinginrestaurantshaslargelyfallenoutofuseandisbymany,includingetiquetteauthorities[who?],consideredoldfashioned.Generallyaromanticcouplewilltaketurnspayingthebi
8、llorsplitit.Itisgenerallyassumedt