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1、TED英语演讲:如何在说话时表现出你的专业性放声说话并不是一件容易的事情,哥伦比亚大学商学院教授AdamGalinsky通过心理研究想出了许多解决这一问题的办法。下面是小编为大家收集关于TED英语演讲:如何在说话时表现出你的专业性,欢迎借鉴参考。演说题目:如何在说话时表现出你的专业性?演说者:AdamGalinsky演讲稿Speakingupishardtodo.Iunderstoodthetruemeaningofthisphraseexactlyonemonthago,whenmywifeandIbecamenewparents.Itwasanamazingmoment
2、.Itwasexhilaratingandelating,butitwasalsoscaryandterrifying.Anditgotparticularlyterrifyingwhenwegothomefromthehospital,andwewereunsurewhetherourlittlebabyboywasgettingenoughnutrientsfrombreastfeeding.Andwewantedtocallourpediatrician,butwealsodidn'twanttomakeabadfirstimpressionorcomeacrossa
3、sacrazy,neuroticparent.Soweworried.Andwewaited.Whenwegottothedoctor'sofficethenextday,sheimmediatelygavehimformulabecausehewasprettydehydrated.Oursonisfinenow,andourdoctorhasreassureduswecanalwayscontacther.Butinthatmoment,Ishould'vespokenup,butIdidn't.Butsometimeswespeakupwhenweshouldn't,
4、andIlearnedthatover10yearsagowhenIletmytwinbrotherdown.Mytwinbrotherisadocumentaryfilmmaker,andforoneofhisfirstfilms,hegotanofferfromadistributioncompany.Hewasexcited,andhewasinclinedtoaccepttheoffer.Butasanegotiationsresearcher,Iinsistedhemakeacounteroffer,andIhelpedhimcrafttheperfectone.
5、Anditwasperfect--itwasperfectlyinsulting.Thecompanywassooffended,theyliterallywithdrewtheofferandmybrotherwasleftwithnothing.AndI'veaskedpeopleallovertheworldaboutthisdilemmaofspeakingup:whentheycanassertthemselves,whentheycanpushtheirinterests,whentheycanexpressanopinion,whentheycanmakean
6、ambitiousask.Andtherangeofstoriesarevariedanddiverse,buttheyalsomakeupauniversaltapestry.CanIcorrectmybosswhentheymakeamistake?CanIconfrontmycoworkerwhokeepssteppingonmytoes?CanIchallengemyfriend'sinsensitivejoke?CanItellthepersonIlovethemostmydeepestinsecurities?Andthroughtheseexperiences
7、,I'vecometorecognizethateachofushavesomethingcalledarangeofacceptablebehavior.Now,sometimeswe'retoostrong;wepushourselvestoomuch.That'swhathappenedwithmybrother.Evenmakinganofferwasoutsidehisrangeofacceptablebehavior.Butsometimeswe'retooweak.That'swhathappened