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1、Steps1、Fighttheshyness.Ifyouhaven'talready,thenyouneedtodoso.2、Getinvolvedinconversations!Youwillnevergetbetterifyoudon'tgetinvolved.It'stheonlywaytoimprove.Talktosomeoneyouwouldn'tusuallytalkto.3、Buildselfesteem.Youwillsucceedifyoudevelopmoreconfidence,sorecognizee
2、achsmallthingthatyouaccomplishorareabletogivetoanother.Realizethatvaluehascomefromyouandresidesinyou.Buildthisstoreofinnerknowledgeandmakeitstronger.4、Conversewithpeoplewhilecarryingoutdailyactivities:atschool,work,thegrocerystoreoratanyotherplace.Communicationispow
3、erfulandasyouenterintomoreconversations,youwillbecomemorecomfortablewithyourself,yourideasandtheirplaceinthethinkingofothers.5、Berelaxedandcasualaroundpeople.Peoplelikeitwhenyouarecomfortablewithyourself.Youcanhelpgrowthisfeelingbybuildingyoursenseofselfworth,again,
4、byrecognizingthesmall,amazingthingsthatyoucangivetootherswithoutthemevenrealizingthatyouhavedoneso.6、Gatherthecompanyofstrong,well-intentionedpeoplewhosupportyouorshareyourinterests.Ifyouaretalkingtopeoplewhoactlikeopendoors,youarelucky!Youcantalktothemaboutanything
5、that'sonyourmindandtheywillmostlikelygiveyouhelpfuladvice!Mostimportantly,theywillcomfortyou!7、Bekindtoothers.Nevereverbemeantootherpeople.Don'tinsultandspreadgossiptopeopleyoudon'ttrust.8、Referencesocialskillsbooksandguides!Thereisawealthofresourcesoutthereifyouonl
6、ylookforit.9、Cultivateyoursenseofhumor.Peoplelovetobearoundwithhumorouspeople.10、Choosespecificgoalsandworktowardsthem.Tryingto"improveyoursocialskills"issuchabroadgoalthatitishardtoseeprogresstowardsit,anditiseasytogetdiscouraged.Instead,pickagoalthatischallengingb
7、utdoableandspecific.Forinstance,youmightdecide"Iwanttobecomecomfortabletalkingwithmylabpartner"or"Iwanttosuccessfullyjoinaconversationataparty."11、Selectspecificskillstoimprove.Insteadoftryingtoimproveallofyoursocialskillsatonce,youmightbuyabookonbodylanguageandwork
8、onthatfirst.Afteryoufeelcomfortableinyourunderstandingofbodylanguage,youmightreadaguideonsmalltalkandpracticethatnext.Learnsocialskillsinb
