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1、ThePositiveMeaningOfLove制作:LovemeansthatIknowthepersonIlove.I'mawareofthemanysidesoftheotherperson—notjustthebeautifulsidebutalsothelimitations,inconsistenciesandfaults.Ihaveanawarenessoftheother'sfeelingsandthoughts,andIexperiencesomethingofthecoreofthatperson.Icanpenetra
2、tesocialmasksandrolesandseetheotherpersononadeeperlevel.爱就意味着了解所爱的人。能够认识到这个人多个方面——不仅仅是美好的一面,还有他的局限,他的矛盾之处和他的缺点。要看到对方的情感、思想,感觉他的内心,要能够透过他在社交场合的表现和他的社会角色而看到他内心的深处。LovemeansthatIcareaboutthewelfareofthepersonIlove.Totheextentthatitisgenuine,mycaringisnotpossessive,nordoesitho
3、ldtheotherpersonback.Onthecontrary,mycaringfreesbothofus.IfIcareaboutyou,I'mconcernedaboutyourgrowth,andIhopeyouwillbecomeallthatyoucanbecome..爱就意味着关心所爱之人的幸福。事实上,爱不是占有,也不是束缚。相反,两人都在爱中得到自由。关心一个人就是关心他的成长,希望他可以成为最好的他..Loveisopen.IfIloveyou,Iencourageyoutoreachoutanddevelopoth
4、errelationships.Althoughourloveforeachotherandourcommitmenttoeachothermightprohibitcertainactionsonourparts,wearenottotallyandexclusivelymarriedtoeachother.Itisafalselovethatcementsonepersontoanotherinsuchawaythatheorsheisnotgivenroomtogrow.爱是包容的。爱一个人,就要鼓励他与他人建立联系。尽管对彼此的爱与
5、承诺不允许我们有某些行为,这种结合也不是全然排他的。两个人密不可分,再无个人发展的余地,这样的爱是不真实、不明智的。Loveisselfish.IcanonlyloveyouifIgenuinelylove,value,appreciate,andrespectmyself.IfIamempty,thenallIcangiveyouismyemptiness.IfIfeelthatI‘mcompleteandworthwhileinmyself,thenI’mabletogivetoyououtofmyfullness.Oneofthebe
6、stwaysformetogiveyouloveisbyfullyenjoyingmyselfwithyou.爱又是自私的。只有真正自爱自重、自赏自尊,才能接受别人。如果自己空虚,那么我能给所爱之人的也只是空虚。如果认为自己是充实的、出色的,那么我就能以自己的充实为所爱之人增光,给对方以爱的最好方法之一就是与所爱之人一起充分体验自己。Loveinvolvesseeingthepotentialwithinthepersonwelove.Inmyloveforanother,Iviewherorhimasthepersonsheorhecan
7、become,whilestillacceptingwhoandwhatthepersonisnow.Bytakingpeopleastheyare,wemakethemworse,butbytreatingthemasiftheyalreadywerewhattheyoughttobe,wehelpmakethembetter.人,在接受今日的他的同时,还要了看作明天他会成为的人。视人静止不变,则令其退步,而视其进步发展、如同他的潜力爱就要看到所爱之人身上的内在潜力。爱一个已经发挥,则助其进步。Tosumitup,matureloveis
8、unionundertheconditionofpreservingone'sindividuality.Inlove,twobeingsbecomeoneandyetremai