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1、Unit1BodylanguageReadthisstoryinaschoolnewspaper.DebbieandSimonarecollegestudents.Theyhavepart-timejobsatatravelagency.Theyaresittingintheoffice.DebbieandSimonlookedupasawell-dressedladyentered.Theladyglancedatthemboth,thenwalkedovertoDebbie.Debbiegreetedhercheerfully.Theladysaid,‘Iwanttogobyt
2、rainto…’Simonsighedandtooksomepapersovertothefaxmachine.Mr.Young,asenioremployee,wasstandingthere.‘What'sup,Simon?Youdon'tlookveryhappy.’‘PeoplealwayspreferDebbietome.Ican'tunderstandit.’‘Ican.It'sthewayyoucommunicate.’‘Howcanthatbe?Idon'tevengetachancetospeaktothem.’‘Communicatingismorethansp
3、eakingandlistening.Yourbodylanguageisimportant,too.’‘Bodylanguage?’‘It'sthewayyoustandandsit.It'syourgesturesandtheexpressiononyourfaceandinyoureyes.Yourwholeappearancecommunicatesthings.Thewayyoulookatpeopledoesn'tgivethemagoodimpression,Simon.Youoftenrestyourheadonyourhand.Youlookdownwards.Y
4、ouneversmile.Youdon'tturnyourheadorbodytowardspeople.LookatDebbie.She'sholdingherheadup.Shelooksatpeople'seyes.Shesmiles.Yourbodylanguageistellingpeopletogoaway.Debbie'sbodylanguageismakingthemfeelwelcome.That'swhytheygotoherforassistance,andnottoyou.’Afterthat,Simondecidedtoimprovehisbodylang
5、uage.Hesatupandsmiledatpeople.Thisseemedtowork.Minuteslater,averybeautifulgirlentered.ShelookedatDebbieandthenSimon.WithouthesitationshewenttoSimonandgavehimabigsmile.Afewmomentslater,sheleft,stillsmiling.Mr.Youngcameoveratonceandremarked,‘Youmadeagoodimpressiononher.’‘Thatwasmysister,’saidSim
6、on.‘Shewantedtoremindmethattomorrowisherbirthday.’在一份校报上读到这个故事。Debbie和Simon是大学同学,他们在一家旅行社做兼职,他们正坐在办公室里。当一位穿着讲究的女士进来的时候Debbie和Simon抬起了头。女士扫视了一下他们两个人,然后走向Debbie,Debbie欢快地向她打招呼.女士说,"我想乘火车去..."Simon叹气,并拿着一些纸来到传真机旁边,一位高级雇员Young先生就站在那。"怎么了,Simon?你看上去不太高兴。""比起我来,人们总是更喜欢Debbie,我无法理解。""我能,这是你交流方式的问题。"怎
7、么可能呢?"Simon问道。"我甚至没有机会跟他们说话。""交流不仅仅是说和听。你的肢体语言也很重要。""肢体语言?""它是你站和坐的方式。是你的手势,以及你的脸上和眼里的表情。你的整个外表都传递信息。你经常将手托着额头休息,你不抬头,你从来不笑,你不把头或身体转向人们。""你看Debbie,她一直在高抬着头。她和客户进行眼神交流,她面带微笑。你的肢体语言是让客户离开,Debbie的肢体语言使客户感到舒服,那就是为什么为什么去她那儿寻求帮助而不是你这儿的原因。从那以后
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