与英美人士交流应保持怎样的距离为得体呢？

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1、与英美人士交流应保持怎样的距离爲得体呢？在与本国人交谈时，你是否注意到这一现象：一个陌生人或一般关系的异性朋友离你很近与你交谈，你会感到很不舒服，於是你会有意或无意地往後移步与对方保持一定的交谈距离。而当你与熟悉的或亲密的朋友行走或交谈时，就会缩短交谈距离。根据不同物件的熟悉程度不时地调节适当的会话距离在同一国家人中是因人而异的。然而在跨文化交际或跨国经营合作中，你是否意识到与来自不同文化国家的人应保持一定的交际距离，使双方感到舒适。本文提供实例进行分析，同时还提供在各种场合及不同人际关系的情况下交际双方所应保持得体的交际距离的研究成果，这必定会解开由不适当

2、的会话距离而引起不适的奥秘。　　一．案例EvacametotheUnitedStatesfromPerutostudyatanAmericancollege.ShewantedtolivewithanAmericanfamilytofindoutmoreabouttheAmericanwayoflifeandshewantedtoimproveherEnglish.TheforeignstudentofficeofhercollegefoundtheLarsenfamilyforEvatolivewith.EvaspokewithMrs.Larsenonth

3、ephone.ShesoundedverywarmandfriendlytoEva.ShetoldEvashecouldmoveinthenextday.Evawasveryhappyaboutit.Evaarrivedthenextdaywithallherluggage.ShewasexcitedtomeettheLarsens.Sherangthedoorbell.Atall,blondwomanansweredthedoorwithabigsmileonherface.Shesaid,"Oh,youmustbeEva!I'msogladyou'reh

4、ere!Letmehelpyouwithyourbags.Comeonin.I'mHildaLarsen."ShetookoneofEva'sbagsintothehouse.Whentheygotinside,Mrs.LarsenputthebagdownandstoodacrossfromEva,about3feetaway,shecrossedherarmsinfrontofherandaskedEva,"Tellmeaboutyourtrip.I'dlovetogotoPerusomeday."Justthen,herteenagedsonwalke

5、din,handinhispockets."Jimmy,meetEva.MaybeshecanhelpyouwithyourSpanishthissemester."saidhismother.Jimmysaid,"Hi,gladtomeetyou."Hishandsstayedinhispocketswhilehenoddedhishead.Evadidn'tknowwhattodowithherhands.Shefeltuncomfortable.Butshesmiledandsaid,"Hi,nicetomeetyou."TheLarsensshowe

6、dEvahernewroom.Thentheyleftheralonetounpack.Evafeltalittledisappointed,butshedidn'tknowexactlywhy.ShethoughtMrs.Larsenseemedsofriendlyonthephone.Butnowshewasn'tsure.Jimmyalsoseemedalittlecold,butmaybehewasjustshy.Evatriedtodecidewhatwaswrong.Shethoughttoherself.IfanAmericangirlcam

7、etostaywithmeinPeru,shewouldgetawarmerwelcomethanthat.Mymotherwouldgiveherabigkiss,insteadofjuststandingthere,ontheothersideoftheroom.Andmybrotherwouldgiveherapropergreeting.Well,peopletoldmethatAmericansarecold.Iguessthey'reright.　Questions1HowdidMrs.LarsengreetEva?2HowdidJimmygre

8、etEva?3WhydidEvafeelthatth