I Forgive You

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1、IForgiveYou（我原谅你）Letgoofbitterness.Marriageisn'ttheonlyrelationshipthatneedsforgiveness.It'srequiredwithourchildren,friends,workmates,neighboursandevenstrangers.Infact,nohumanrelationshipcansurvivewithouttheoxygenofforgiveness.It'snotanoptionalnicetyforpeoplewhoareintothatkindofthing,it'saunivers

2、alnecessityforrelationshipsandforyourownhealthandsanity.莫怀憎恨。并非只有婚烟关系需要谅解。我们与子女、朋友、同事、邻居，甚至陌生人相处同样需要谅解。事实上，没有谅解这种氧气，任何人类关系都不可能存活。谅解他人不是当事人可做可不做的好事，而是一种维持良好关系、保持身心健康的普遍需要。Ioncemetacouplewhosedaughter,Sarah,hadbeenhitandkilledbyadrunkdriverwhenshe'dbeenoutonherbike.Shediedinstantly.Thedriver'sguilt

3、wasneverindoubthedidn'tevenhaveavalidlicence,havinglostitafterapreviousconvicitonfordrunkdriving.Hewasjailedformanslaughter.ButforRogerandCathy,Sarah'sparents,thiswasn'tenough.Alltheycouldthinkaboutwasgettingrevengeonherkiller.Sittingwiththemintheirhomeyearslater,Iwasoverwhelmedbytheirheartbreak.

4、Ican'tevenbegintoimaginethehorroroftheirordeal.There'slittledoubtinmymindthatjusticewasn'tservedinthelightnessofthesentencegiventoSarah'skiller,whosecoldselfcentrednessandlackofremorseshockedmetothecore.Butatthesametime,Icouldn'thelpfeelinggreatersorrowatthewayRogerandCathy'scontinuedreactiontoh

5、erdeathwascompoundingtheirmisery.我曾遇见一对夫妇，他们的女儿萨拉骑车外出时被醉酒驾车的司机撞倒，当场毙命。司机的罪责确定无疑——他甚至没有有效的驾驶执照，因为他曾因醉酒驾车前科而被没收了。他因杀人罪被判入狱。可这不足以平息萨拉父母罗杰和凯瑟的心头之恨。他们满脑子想的都是为女儿报仇。多年后我坐在他们的家中，被他们伤心欲绝的样子深深地震撼着，甚至不敢去想他们的这种苦难有多可怕。我相信撞死萨拉的凶手被判的刑不够重。他的冷酷、自私和无心悔改，让我无比震惊。但同时，看到罗杰和凯瑟对女儿去世抹不去的悲痛所造成的不幸，我不禁更加伤心。Everydaytheywereb

6、eingconsumedbyahatredandbitternessthatmadenoimpactwhatsoeveronSarah'skiller.Wasthiswhatshe'dhavewantedforherparents,thislivinghellthatwasdestroyingtheirlives?Icouldn'thelpthinkingthatifSarahcouldspeaktothemshewouldbegthemtoletgooftheirbitternessandbegintoliveagain.仇恨和哀伤每天咬噬着罗杰和凯瑟的内心，而这对萨拉的凶手却无丝毫影

7、响。难道这是萨拉所希望的吗?让这活地狱毁灭父母的生活?我不由得想，如果萨拉能对父母讲话，她定会恳求他们不要再怀恨了，开始新生活吧。Someofusmaythinkthatwe'vebeenhurttoodeeply,ortoooften,toforgive.Butironically,it'sthoseofuswho'vebeenmosthurtwhoreallyneedtoforgive,foronesimplereason:li