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1、DifferencesinexpressingloveLoveissuchabeautifulthing,however,itneedtobeexpressed,whetherdirectlyorindirectly,sothatotherscanperceiveit.Thewayhowpeopleexpresslovevariesgreetly.Itcanbeinfluencedbymanythings,suchasregionaldisparity,culturedifferences,personalitydistinctionandsoon.Now
2、Iwanttofocusonthedifferencesinexpressinglovebetweensouthernersandnorthernersinourcountry,andtrytoexplainsomereasonsthatleadtothesedifferences.First,toloversNorthernersareusuallydescribedasdirectandopen,andtheydealwiththeirloveaffairsinamoredirectandsimpleway,comparedwithsoutherner
3、s.Whentheyencountertheonetheylove,especiallyformales,theyaremorelikelytogiveaself-revealingdirectly,maybetogetherwithsomerosesorpresents.Andevenforgirlsformthenorthernareas,theyaremoredirectlyandboldontheirloveaffairs,moreeasiertoaccepttheprofessofmalewhosheadmired,orpursuetheones
4、heloved.Butdirectlyastheyare,theymayignoresomedetailswhengettingalongwitheachother,ortheremaybesomelackofromance.Asforsoutherners,theychosetobemoreimplicativewhenconfrontwithlove.Theyexpressthemselveswithtwistsandturns.Theyarenotfondofexpressingtheirfeelingsdirectly,expeciallyforg
5、irls,whoaremoreimpolicativeandreserved,theyexpectmalestobepositive.Generallyspeaking,whethermaleorfemaleinsouthernbehavesmoreconsideratelytolovers,whichisinagreementwiththeirdelicatecharacters.Second,tofriendsAsforfriends,thenorthernersaremoreboldandunconstrainedtofriends.Theyofte
6、nshowtheirgoodfeelingtotheirfriendsbytreatingmealsorplayingtogether.Theircharacterseemslikethebrightlydistinctfourseasonsinnorth.TheymayhaveGreatsorroworgreatjoyfrequently,andfeelingsareshowedontheirfaceclearly.Whensomeoneisconsideredastheirfriend,theymaytreathimbrotherly,ratherfr
7、ankandloyal.Butoncethefriendshipbreakup,intensecontradictionmaybeproduced,theymaynotrunoverthisbecauseofpreviousfriendship.Whilepeopleinsouthisdifferent,theirattitudetowardfriendsismoreimplicativeand“polite”,whoevertheyaregettingalongwith,theytendtohehavegentlelyandpeaceful.Theire
8、motionstowardfriendsarenotasobvio
