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1、Englishname:EmilyChinesename:ZhaoZeJingProfessor:WhitneyLeeStudentNumber：2121140039December,2012WhatwomentellandwhattheyreallymeanItisauniversallyexceptedtruththatwomendon’talwaysmeanwhattheysay.Wedon’treallyhaveasecretlanguage,butwemanagetohavesecretmeaningsf
2、oralotofthesimpleandreallybasicthingswesay.Guys,Iknowyouhavebeenpuzzledbytheoppositesexandbynomeansdowemakeiteasyforyou.Wesayonething,wemeananother.Werarelyeversayjustwhatwemean.Weonlyexpectyoutoreadourminds,what'swrongwiththat?Well,incaseyou'renotamindreader,
3、herearesometipsforyouonyourjourneytounderstandingwomen.Firstthingsfirst,ifyouthinkyouunderstandwhatwemeanwhenwesaycertainphrases,youprobablydon't.Ifyouthinkwemeanonething,weusuallymeananother.Herearesomeexamples.Whenagirlsays:1.I'mfine:Guysthisisaredflagforyou
4、.Ifagirlrespondstooneofyourquestions,withan"I'mfine",Icanalmostguaranteeyousheisnot.Ifwesaythis,wearemorethanlikelypissedatyouforsomethingyouprobablydon'tevenknowyoudid.Wearenotfineandyoubetterbecareful.Thistypicallymeansweareunhappy.Youstillneedtowatchout.2.L
5、eavemealone:Nowthisoneistricky.Becausewhenwetellsomeonetoleaveusalone,ninetimesoutoften,wewantyoutodotheopposite.Whydowedothis?Idon'tknow,we'rewomen,andwe'rejustweirdlikethat.Whateveryoudo,donotleaveusalone.Again,thisprobablymeanssomethingiswrongandweeithernee
6、dtotalkaboutitorneedyourcomfort.Leavemealonemeans,pleasedon'tleavemealone.Keepthisinmind.3.Willyoudothisforme:Guys,justbecausethisisphrasedlikeaquestion,donotbedeceived.Wearenotofferingyouanoptionhere.Whenweaskyoutodosomethingforus,wemeanyou’dbetterdoit,notyou
7、getachoice.Yourbestchoiceistodowhatevercanmakeushappy.Iknowthisseemsalittlecrazy,butlikeIsaidbefore,we'rewomen,sometimesthereisnorhymeorreasontothemadness.4.ThanksalotYou’renotbeingthanked.Wearenotgrateful.Whenwesay‘thanksalot’youhavedonesomethingthat’sreallyp
8、issedusoff.‘Thanksalot’willusuallybefollowedbya‘loudsigh’.Besensitiveenoughtoaskwhereyouwentwrong,butbepreparedtoaccept‘nothing’forananswer.Thesearejustpartsofthe“secretwords”.Buti
