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1、ThediscussonthecolleaguestudentBrothersharpRecently,therewasasurprisingthingbeingdiscussedontheinternetforalongtime,aprestigiousuniversitystudenthadhangedoutforsevenyearswithshabbyclothesandfeedhimselfupforcollectingscraps.Mostpeoplethinkitisbecauseawrongrunningrulesofauniversity.Inmyopinion,itisno
2、tonlyindicateaproblemofuniversity,butitisalsoaissueoffamilyeducationandself-government.Firstofall,nowadays,mostchildrenaretheonlychildintheirfamily,andparentsespeciallyChineseparentsspoilachildlikeheorsheisthecenteroftheworld,andgivethemwhatevertheywant,neverletthemtoexperiencehardthings,makeeveryi
3、mportantchoiceforthem,sothechilddon'tknowhowthetrueworldarelike,andtheydon'tknowtheyarenobodybutthemselvesandnobodywillrotatearoundthemexcepttheirparents.Theyarenotindispensableintheworld,theymustworkhardtoachievetheirvaluetothesociety,sotheycanlivealovelylife.Secondlytheyoungteenagershaven'tlearne
4、dhowtogovernmentthemselves,includinghowtocontroltheiremotionsandhowtobeingstrongenoughtocandledifficultiestheyfacedintheirlife,theyaretoodependent,evencan'tlivewellwithouttheirparents.Alwayswhentheygottoaprestigiousuniversity,theywouldregardthemselvesassomebodywhocannotreplacebyothers,butactuallywh
5、entheywentgothesociety,itistotallywrong,theyarenottheonlypersonwhocandosomespecificwork,andiftheycannotendurehardships,theywillbeout.Sotheycan'tbearthedepressingcomesfromtheirinnerheart,theywouldstartedtohatetheworld,andlosttheirconfidence,thentheyfailintheirjob,andtheyhavenocouragetomeettheirparen
6、tsandrelativeswhohavebigwishforthem.Insummary,Ithinkthepivotalproblemsisparentsdidn'tgivetherightguidance,andtheyselvesdidn'tstrongenoughandlackofself-control.