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1、1Goodcommunicationisvitalinmodernsociety.Weknowthatmuchofthecommunicationisunspoken.Consciouslyorunconsciously,weshowourtruefeelingswithoureyes,faces,bodiesandattitudes.Yourgoodqualitiescanmakegoodcommunication.Thepersonalqualitiesinclude:physicalappearance,energy,rateofspeech,pitchandtoneofvoice
2、,gestures,expressivenessofeyes,andtheabilitytoholdtheinterestofothers.Whatshouldwedosothatourcommunicationwillbeeffective?Herearemysuggestions.Firstly,youshouldbeyourself.Thetrickistobeconsistentlyyou,atyourbest.Themosteffectivepeopleneverchangecharacterfromonesituationtoanother.They’rethesamewhe
3、therthey’rehavingaconversationwiththeirclosefriends,addressingtheirgardencluborbeinginterviewedforajob.Theycommunicatewiththeirwholebeing. Secondly,whetheryou’retalkingtoonepersonoronehundred,alwaysremembertolookatthem.Don’tbreakeyecontactwhiletalking.Asyouenteraroom,moveyoureyescomfortably,t
4、henlookdirectlyatthoseintheroomandsmile.Thisshowsclearlythatyouareatease.Smilingisimportant.Thebesttypeofsmileandeyecontactisgentleandcomfortable,notforced.Youshouldalsoabsorbotherpeoplebeforeshowingyourself.Youcan’tlearnanythingwhenyoutalk.Whenyouattendameeting,apartyoraninterview,don’timmediate
5、lystartthrowingyouropinions.Stopforasecond.Absorbwhat’sgoingon.What’sthemoodoftheothers—aretheydown,up,happy,expectant?Aretheyeagertolearnfromyou,ordotheyshowresistance?Ifyoucansensewhat’shappeningwithothers,youwillbebetterabletoreachthem.So,listenbeforeyoutalk.Thefourthsuggestionisthatyoufocusyo
6、urenergy.Howdoyougetyourenergyup? Beforethemeeting,collectyourthoughtsaboutthegoalofthemeeting—yoursandtheother’s.Onceyougothroughthedoorway,nolongerthinkaboutyourself.Focusonthepersonyouaremeetingtofindoutwhatheisinterestedin. Properlycollectedenergycomesacrosswhenwesincerelybelievesomething.Whe
7、nyouspeakwithenergy,youareinvolvedwithyouraudienceandyourmessage.Youcreateanairofcertainty.Theaudiencemaydisagreewithyou,buttheycan’tquestionyourbelief.Lastly,Iwouldliketoremindyouthatyoushouldlightenup.Takeagoodhardlo
