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1、eyes-bodylanguageOureyesareaverysignificantaspectofthenon-verbalsignalswesendtoothers.Toalesserorgreaterextentweall'read'people'seyeswithoutknowinghoworwhy,andthisabilityseemstobeinborn.Eyes-andespeciallyourhighlydevelopedawarenessofwhatweseeinotherpeop
2、le'seyes-areincredible.Forexampleweknowifwehaveeyecontactwithsomeoneatanalmostunbelievabledistance.Fartoofarawaytobeabletoseethedetailofaperson'seyes-30-40metresawayormoresometimes-weknowwhenthereiseyecontact.Thisisanabsolutelyawesomecapabilitywhenyouth
3、inkaboutit.Incrediblyalso,wecanseewhetheranotherperson'seyesarefocusedonusornot,andwecandetecteasilythedifferencesbetweena'glazedover'blankstare,apiercinglook,amoisteningeyelongbeforetearscome,andanawkwardorsecretglance.Weprobablycannotdescribetheseandm
4、anyothereyesignals,butwerecognisethemwhenweseethemandweknowwhattheymean.Whenweadditionallyconsidertheeyelids,andtheflexibilityoftheeyestowidenandclose,andforthepupilstoenlargeorcontract,itbecomeseasiertounderstandhowtheeyeshavedevelopedsuchpotencyinhuma
5、ncommunications.Anoteabouteyeslookingrightandleft..(Leftandrightareforthepersongivingthesignalsandmakingthemovements)Eyestendtolookrightwhenthebrainisimaginingorcreating,andleftwhenthebrainisrecallingorremembering.Thisrelatestorightandleftsidesofthebrai
6、n-inthiscontextbroadlythepartsofthebrainhandlingcreativity/feelings(right)andfacts/memory(left).Thisisanalysedingreaterdetailbelow,chieflybasedonNLPtheorydevelopedinthe1960s.Undercertaincircumstances'creating'canmeanfabricationorlying,especially(butnota
7、lways-beware),whenthepersonissupposedtoberecallingfacts.Lookingrightwhenstatingfactsdoesnotnecessarilymeanlying-itcouldforexamplemeanthatthepersondoesnotknowtheanswer,andistalkinghypotheticallyorspeculatingorguessing.signalpartofbodypossiblemeaning(s)de
8、tailedexplanation Leftandrightareforthepersongivingthesignalsandmakingthemovements. lookingright(generally)eyescreating,fabricating,guessing,lying,storytellingCreatinghereisbasicallymakingthingsupandsayingthem.Dependingoncontex
