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1、TED演讲：用肢体语言来塑造自己http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_areSoIwanttostartbyofferingyouafreeno-techlifehack,andallitrequiresofyouisthis:thatyouchangeyourposturefortwominutes.ButbeforeIgiveitaway,Iwanttoaskyoutorightnowdoalittleauditofyourbodyandwh
2、atyou'redoingwithyourbody.Sohowmanyofyouaresortofmakingyourselvessmaller?Maybeyou'rehunching,crossingyourlegs,maybewrappingyourankles.Sometimesweholdontoourarmslikethis.Sometimeswespreadout.(Laughter)Iseeyou.(Laughter)SoIwantyoutopayattentiontowhatyou'redoingrightnow.We'rego
3、ingtocomebacktothatinafewminutes,andI'mhopingthatifyoulearntotweakthisalittlebit,itcouldsignificantlychangethewayyourlifeunfolds.So,we'rereallyfascinatedwithbodylanguage,andwe'reparticularlyinterestedinotherpeople'sbodylanguage.Youknow,we'reinterestedin,like,youknow—(Laughte
4、r)—anawkwardinteraction,orasmile,oracontemptuousglance,ormaybeaveryawkwardwink,ormaybeevensomethinglikeahandshake.Narrator:HeretheyarearrivingatNumber10,andlookatthisluckypolicemangetstoshakehandswiththePresidentoftheUnitedStates.Oh,andherecomesthePrimeMinisterofthe—?No.(Lau
5、ghter)(Applause)(Laughter)(Applause)AmyCuddy:Soahandshake,orthelackofahandshake,canhaveustalkingforweeksandweeksandweeks.EventheBBCandTheNewYorkTimes.Soobviouslywhenwethinkaboutnonverbalbehavior,orbodylanguage--butwecallitnonverbalsassocialscientists--it'slanguage,sowethinka
6、boutcommunication.Whenwethinkaboutcommunication,wethinkaboutinteractions.Sowhatisyourbodylanguagecommunicatingtome?What'sminecommunicatingtoyou?Andthere'salotofreasontobelievethatthisisavalidwaytolookatthis.Sosocialscientistshavespentalotoftimelookingattheeffectsofourbodylan
7、guage,orotherpeople'sbodylanguage,onjudgments.Andwemakesweepingjudgmentsandinferencesfrombodylanguage.Andthosejudgmentscanpredictreallymeaningfullifeoutcomeslikewhowehireorpromote,whoweaskoutonadate.Forexample,NaliniAmbady,aresearcheratTuftsUniversity,showsthatwhenpeoplewatc
8、h30-secondsoundlessclipsofrealphysician-patientinteractions,theirjudgmentso
