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1、THESEVENHABITSOFHIGHLYEFFECTIVEPEOPLEStephenR.CoveyPartOneParadigmsandPrinciplesINSIDE-OUTThereisnorealexcellenceinallthisworldwhichcanbeseparatedfromrightliving--DavidStarrJordan***Inmorethan25yearsofworkingwithpeopleinbusiness,university,andmarriageandfamilysettings,I
2、havecomeincontactwithmanyindividualswhohaveachievedanincredibledegreeofoutwardsuccess,buthavefoundthemselvesstrugglingwithaninnerhunger,adeepneedforpersonalcongruencyandeffectivenessandforhealthy,growingrelationshipswithotherpeople.Isuspectsomeoftheproblemstheyhaveshare
3、dwithmemaybefamiliartoyou.I'vesetandmetmycareergoalsandI'mhavingtremendousprofessionalsuccess.Butit'scostmemypersonalandfamilylife.Idon'tknowmywifeandchildrenanymore.I'mnotevensureIknowmyselfandwhat'sreallyimportanttome.I'vehadtoaskmyself--isitworthit?I'vestartedanewdie
4、t--forthefifthtimethisyear.IknowI'moverweight,andIreallywanttochange.Ireadallthenewinformation,Isetgoals,IgetmyselfallpsychedupwithapositivementalattitudeandtellmyselfIcandoit.ButIdon't.Afterafewweeks,Ifizzle.Ijustcan'tseemtokeepapromiseImaketomyself.I'vetakencourseafte
5、rcourseoneffectivemanagementtraining.IexpectalotoutofmyemployeesandIworkhardtobefriendlytowardthemandtotreatthemright.ButIdon'tfeelanyloyaltyfromthem.IthinkifIwerehomesickforaday,they'dspendmostoftheirtimegabbingatthewaterfountain.Whycan'tItrainthemtobeindependentandres
6、ponsible--orfindemployeeswhocanbe?Myteenagesonisrebelliousandondrugs.NomatterwhatItry,hewon'tlistentome.WhatcanIdo?There'ssomuchtodo.Andthere'sneverenoughtime.Ifeelpressuredandhassledallday,everyday,sevendaysaweek.I'veattendedtimemanagementseminarsandI'vetriedhalfadozen
7、differentplanningsystems.They'vehelpedsome,butIstilldon'tfeelI'mlivingthehappy,productive,peacefullifeIwanttolive.Iwanttoteachmychildrenthevalueofwork.Buttogetthemtodoanything,Ihavetosuperviseeverymove;andputupwithcomplainingeverystepoftheway.It'ssomucheasiertodoitmysel
8、f.Whycan'tchildrendotheirworkcheerfullyandwithoutbeingreminded?I'mbusy--reallybusy.ButsometimesIwonderifwhatI'