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1、THESEVENHABITSOFHIGHLYEFFECTIVEPEOPLEStephenR.CoveyPartOneParadigmsandPrinciplesINSIDE-OUTThereisnorealexcellenceinallthisworldwhichcanbeseparatedfromrightliving--DavidStarrJordan***Inmorethan25yearsofworkingwithpeopleinbusiness,university,andmarriageandfamilysettings,Ihavecomein
2、contactwithmanyindividualswhohaveachievedanincredibledegreeofoutwardsuccess,buthavefoundthemselvesstrugglingwithaninnerhunger,adeepneedforpersonalcongruencyandeffectivenessandforhealthy,growingrelationshipswithotherpeople.Isuspectsomeoftheproblemstheyhavesharedwithmemaybefamiliar
3、toyou.I'vesetandmetmycareergoalsandI'mhavingtremendousprofessionalsuccess.Butit'scostmemypersonalandfamilylife.Idon'tknowmywifeandchildrenanymore.I'mnotevensureIknowmyselfandwhat'sreallyimportanttome.I'vehadtoaskmyself--isitworthit?I'vestartedanewdiet--forthefifthtimethisyear.Ikn
4、owI'moverweight,andIreallywanttochange.Ireadallthenewinformation,Isetgoals,IgetmyselfallpsychedupwithapositivementalattitudeandtellmyselfIcandoit.ButIdon't.Afterafewweeks,Ifizzle.Ijustcan'tseemtokeepapromiseImaketomyself.I'vetakencourseaftercourseoneffectivemanagementtraining.Iex
5、pectalotoutofmyemployeesandIworkhardtobefriendlytowardthemandtotreatthemright.ButIdon'tfeelanyloyaltyfromthem.IthinkifIwerehomesickforaday,they'dspendmostoftheirtimegabbingatthewaterfountain.Whycan'tItrainthemtobeindependentandresponsible--orfindemployeeswhocanbe?Myteenagesonisre
6、belliousandondrugs.NomatterwhatItry,hewon'tlistentome.WhatcanIdo?There'ssomuchtodo.Andthere'sneverenoughtime.Ifeelpressuredandhassledallday,everyday,sevendaysaweek.I'veattendedtimemanagementseminarsandI'vetriedhalfadozendifferentplanningsystems.They'vehelpedsome,butIstilldon'tfee
7、lI'mlivingthehappy,productive,peacefullifeIwanttolive.Iwanttoteachmychildrenthevalueofwork.Buttogetthemtodoanything,Ihavetosuperviseeverymove;andputupwithcomplainingeverystepoftheway.It'ssomucheasiertodoitmyself.Whycan'tchildrendotheirworkcheerfullyandwithoutbeingreminded?I'mbusy
8、--reallybusy.ButsometimesIwonderifwhatI'