谈谈这个时代的“玻璃”心

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1、谈谈这个时代的“玻璃”心　　WhenIaskveteran1）collegeteachersandadministratorstodescribehowcollegestudentshavechangedovertheyears，Ioftengetananswerlikethis：“Today’sstudentsaremoreaccomplishedthanpastgenerations，buttheyarealsomoreemotionallyfragile.”　　Thatringstruetome.To

2、day’sstudentsareamazing，buttheybatheoneanotherinoceansofaffirmationandpraise，asifbuttressing2）oneanotheragainstsomeinsecurity.Whateveronethinksofthecampusprotests3），thedesirefortriggerwarnings4）andsafespacesdoesseemtoemanate5）fromaplaceofemotionalfragility

3、.　　Andifyouhangaroundwiththemiddleaged，youhearacommonstorylinetoexplaintheriseoftheorchidgeneration.Onceuponatime，thestorylinegoes，kidswereraisedinatoughenvironment.Theyhadtodohardmanualchoresaroundthehouseandtheygotinfightsontheplayground.Thentheywentofft

4、odogrueling6）workinthefactoryortheylearnedtoughnessandgrit7）inthemilitary.　　Buttoday，helicopterparents8）protecttheirchildrenfrom8setbacksandhardship.Theysuperviseeveryplaygroundconflict，sokidsneverlearntohandledisputesordealwithpain.　　There’salotoftruthtot

5、hatnarrative，butlet’snotbetoonostalgic9）forthepast.Alotofwhatwetaketobethetoughnessofthepastwasreallyjustcallousness10）.Therewasagreatertendencyinyearsgonebytowalloffemotions，toputonathickskin―forsomementobestone-likeanduncommunicativeandforsomewomentobebr

6、ittle11），brassy12）anduntouchable.　　Andthenmanypeopleturnedtoalcoholtohelpthemfeelanythingatall.　　Perhapsit’stimetorethinktoughnessoratleastdetachitfromhardness.Beingemotionallyresilient13）isnotsomedefensiveposture.It’snothavingsomearmorsurroundingyousothat

7、nothingcanhurtyou.　　Thepeopleweadmireforbeingresilientarenothard；theyareardent14）.Theyhaveaferventcommitmenttosomecause，someidealorsomerelationship.Thathigheryearningenablesthemtowithstandsetbacks，painandbetrayal.　　Suchpeopleare，astheysayinthemartialartswo

8、rld，stronglikewater.Ablowmightsinkintothem，andwhenitdoestheyareprofoundlyaffectedbyit.Buttheycanabsorbtheblowbecauseit’sshorttermwhiletheirnaturalshapeislongterm.8　　Therearemomentswhentheyfeelswallowedupbyfea