我的成功我定义

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1、我的成功我定义　　WhatIthinkI’vebeentalkingabout，really，issuccessandfailure.Andoneoftheinterestingthingsaboutsuccessisthatwethinkweknowwhatitmeans.IfIsaidtoyouthatthere’ssomebodybehindthescreen，who’svery，verysuccessful，certainideaswouldimmediatelycometomind.Youwouldthinkthatpersonmighthavemadealo

2、tofmoney，achievedrenowninsomefield.Myowntheoryofsuccess―andI’msomebodywho’sveryinterestedinsuccess，Ireallywanttobesuccessful.I’malwaysthinking，“HowcanIbemoresuccessful，”butasIgetolderI’malsovery1）nuancedaboutwhatthatword“success”mightmean.　　Here’ssomeinsightthatI’vehadaboutsuccess；youcan

3、’tbesuccessfulateverything.Wehearalotabouttalkaboutwork-lifebalance.Nonsense！Youcan’thaveitall.Youcan’t.Soanyvisionofsuccesshastoadmitwhatit’slosingouton，wheretheelementoflossis.AndIthinkanywiselifewillaccept，asIsay，thatthere’sgonnabeanelementwherewe’renotsucceeding.　　Andthethingaboutasu

4、ccessfullifeisthatalotofthetimeourideasofwhatitwouldmeantolivesuccessfullyarenotour4own.They’resuckedinfromotherpeople，chiefly，ifyou’reaman，yourfather，andifyou’reawoman，yourmother.2）Psychoanalysishasbeendrumminghomethismessageforabout80years.Noone’squitelisteninghardenough，butIverymuchbe

5、lievethatthat’strue.Andwealsosuckinmessagesfromeverythingfromthetelevisiontoadvertisingtomarketing，etc.Thisis，thesearehugelypowerfulforcesthatdefinewhatwewantandhowweviewourselves.Whenwe’retoldthatbankingisaveryrespectableprofession，alotofuswanttogointobanking.Whenbanking’snolongersoresp

6、ectable，weloseinterestinbanking.Wearehighlyopentosuggestion.　　SowhatIwanttoargueforisnotthatweshouldgiveuponourideasofsuccess，butweshouldmakesurethattheyareourown.Weshouldfocusinonourideasandmakesurethatweownthem，thatwearetrulytheauthorsofourownambitions，becauseit’sbadenoughnotgettingwha

7、tyouwant，butit’sevenworsetohaveanideaofwhatitisyouwantandfindoutattheendofthejourneythatitisn’t，infact，whatyouwantedallalong.　　SoI’mgoingtoenditthere，butwhatIreallywanttostressis，byallmeanssuccess，yes，butlet’sacceptthestrangenessofsomeofourideas.Let’s3）probeawayatournotio