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1、胖娃辛酸史:我的胖,谁的错? Iwasafatkid.Ihaven’twrittenaboutthisbeforebecausebeingafatkidhurtmethen.Andhavingbeenafatkidhurtsmenow. ThingsIrememberaboutbeingfat:Notbeingabletowearjeans(therewasnosuchthingasjeansforfatgirlsin1983).Notwantingtoparticipateinanygamesattheschoolf
2、airexceptthecakewalk.Fakingsickonthedayweweresupposedtodoheight-weighttesting,onlytofindoutthatithadbeenpostponedaday.Pretendingtotwistmyankleatage7inthe50-yarddashtosparemyselftheembarrassmentofbeingthefatkidwhocameinlast;doingthesameatage8,and11.Stealingbagsofbr
3、ownsugarfromthepantrytoeatinmybedroom,alone;denyingtomymotherthatI’ddoneso,evenwhenitwasclearsheknewIhad. Thereisathemehere:absence,andfalsity.Icouldn’twearjeans;Ididn’twanttoplaygamesthatwouldn’tgetmecake;Ifakedsick;Ipretendedtotwistmyankle;andIdeniedsecreteatin
4、g.Beingafatchildwasn’tsomuchaboutthefactofbeingfatasitwasaboutcouldn’t,wouldn’t,shouldn’t.Thereisacounter-themetoo:Love―offood,exquisitefood,food,7food,phood,food,thepanaceatowhateverfree-floatingstressestherewereinmylifeasanintellectuallymaturebutemotionallynot-s
5、o-mature8-yearoldgirl.Ididn’thaveadifficultchildhoodbyanymeans,butitwasachildhood;itcamewithbumpsanddentsandscratchesthatIdidn’treallyknowhowtohandle.Luckyforme,Ididn’thavetolearn,becauseIhadfoodrightthere,everyday,makingitallokay.Itworked―untilitdidn’t,butthat’sn
6、otthestoryI’mtryingtotellhere.Foodfeltlikeitworked,andinachild’smind,that’senough. WhenIlookatmyownexperienceasafatkid,Idon’tseeaproblemwithsociety,orcruelchildren,orunlimitedsodarefills.Iseeaproblemwith―howdoIputthiswithoutappearingtobeswattingthewristofmy8-year
7、-oldself?―Iseeaproblemwithme,andwiththewayIunderstoodmysize.Therewasverylittlefat-shaminginmylife,butIstillfeltlikebeingfatwaswrong,bad,unfeminine,shameful―allthosethingsfatactivistssayareerroneouslyattachedtoweight.They’rerighttosaythat;thosefeelingsshouldbesepar
8、atefromweight.Yettheyweren’tseparate,notforme.IfilteredanyfeelingIhad―aboutmyfatnessoranythingelse―throughfood,andmychronicovereatingwaswhatkeptmefat.My
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