8个理由告诉你 第一次约会不必太紧张

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1、8个理由告诉你第一次约会不必太紧张Dating,asmosthumanswhoengageinithavenodoubtobserved,canbeamajorsourceofstress--especiallyfirstdates.Youcanwasteashockingamountoftimeworryingaboutyour outfit,whereyou'llmeetup,whenyou'llmeetupandwhetherornotthedatewillgowell.Hereareeightreasonsnottostressaboutth

2、efirstdate:大多数约过会的人想必已经留意到，约会也是压力的一大来源，尤其是第一次约会。你会浪费大量的时间在担心你的穿着、见面地点、见面时间，以及约会是否顺利。这是关于初次约会不必紧张的8个理由：1.Yougettojudge,too.你也会评价对方。It'sveryeasytowasteawholelotoftimeworryingaboutwhetherthepersonyou'regoingonadatewithwilllikeyou.Butyourprecioushoursareprobablybetterspentthinkinga

3、boutwhetheryoulikeyourdate.AsTomHanks'charactertellshisfictionalsonin"SleeplessInSeattle","Thisiswhatsinglepeopledo.Theytryotherpeopleonandseehowtheyfit."Spendyourfirstdateevaluatingwhetherthepersonsittingacrossfromyouseemslikeawell-tailoredsuitormorelikeaill-fittingitemthat'sb

4、etterleftontherack.你会很容易把时间浪费在担忧“与你约会的人会不会喜欢你”这个问题上。但约会前的几小时可以更为有用，比如想想你会不会喜欢上你的约会对象。就像汤姆-汉克斯在电影《西雅图夜未眠》中饰演的角色对儿子说，“这就是单身人士做的事。他们约会对方，看看对方适不适合自己。”初次约会时评价一下坐在你对面的那个人，看他是品行端庄的人还是邋遢不堪的人。2.There'snoneedtobeelaborate.没有必要精心安排。Thefocusofyourfirstmeet-upisgettingafeelfortheotherperson

5、.Thatmeansthatlightheartedconversationis paramount --notasupercreativeplanthatinvolvesmultiplestops,top-tierrestaurantsand hipster undergroundbars.Justpickacoffeeshop/bar/restaurantwhereyoufeelcomfortable...ormakeitreallyeasyonyourselfandmakeyourdatechoose.第一次见面的重点是试试对对方有没有感觉。这

6、意味着轻松愉悦的谈话是最重要的，而不是一个富有创意的安排，比如去好几个地方、去顶级餐厅和地下酒吧等等。只要选一家你感觉舒服的咖啡店或酒吧或餐厅就可以，或者由你的约会对象和你自己随意做决定。3.Peopleareopentoalotofdifferentdatevenues.人们对约会场所表示很随意。istheTibetanPlateaupoly.Centercityonlyapopulationofoveronemillion.Xiningislocatedinthe"Tangfangudao"andtheancient"SilkRoad"road,

7、istheLoessPlateauandtheTibetanPlateau,agriculturalandpastoralareasand,inconjunctionwiththeMinistryofcultureandIslamiccultureJudgingfromanewinfographicfromdatingsiteHowAboutWe.com,Americansareopentoawidevarietyofdatingactivities.Ifyoufeellikeeatingfrozenyogurt,seeinganartexhibit

8、,goingbowlingordrinkingaglassofwine,chancesarethatyour