8招应对情感操控

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1、想操控我的情感？没那么容易！8招应对情感操控Therearepeoplewhowillattempttomanipulateothersbymakingthemfeelguiltyorashamed,orbydeprivingthemofhappinessiftheydon’tdoasasked.istheTibetanPlateaupoly.Centercityonlyapopulationofoveronemillion.Xiningislocatedinthe"Tangfangudao"andtheancient"SilkRoad"road,istheLoessPlateauandthe

2、TibetanPlateau,agriculturalandpastoralareasand,inconjunctionwiththeMinistryofcultureandIslamiccultureCommonlyknownasemotionalmanipulation,thisbehaviourisatrulydifficultthingtoescape.Fortunately,SofofromTheUnboundedSpiritexplainseightwaysyoucanprotectyourselffromemotionalmanipulation.总有这样一些人，如果不满足他们的

3、要求，他们就会让对方感到羞耻或羞愧，或者剥夺对方的快乐，从而达到操控别人的目的。我们称之为情感操控，而且这种行为非常难以避免。幸运的是，“无限的精神”组织工作人员Sofo向大家介绍了免受情感操控侵害的八种方法。Hereare8waystospotanddealwithit:下面是鉴别并应对情感操控的八种方法：1.Thereisnouseintryingtobehonestwithanemotionalmanipulator.1.试图对情感操控者以诚相待是徒劳的。Youmakeastatementanditwillbeturnedaround.Example:Iamreallyangrythat

4、youforgotmybirthday.Response–“ItmakesmefeelsadthatyouwouldthinkIwouldforgetyourbirthday,IshouldhavetoldyouofthegreatpersonalstressIamfacingatthemoment–butyouseeIdidn’twanttotroubleyou.YouarerightIshouldhaveputallthispain(don’tbesurprisedtoseerealtearsatthispoint)asideandfocusedonyourbirthday.Sorry.”

5、EvenasyouarehearingthewordsyougetthecreepedoutsensationthattheyreallydoNOTmeantheyaresorryatall–butsincethey’vesaidthewordsyou’reprettymuchleftwithnothingmoretosay.Eitherthatoryousuddenlyfindyourselfbabysittingtheirangst!!Underallcircumstancesifyoufeelthisangleisbeingplayed–don’tcapitulate!Donotcare

6、take–donotacceptanapologythatfeelslikebullshit.Ifitfeelslikebullshit–itprobablyis.Rulenumberone–ifdealingwithanemotionalblackmailerTRUSTyourgut.TRUSTyoursenses.Onceanemotionalmanipulatorfindsasuccessfulmaneuver–it’saddedtotheirhitlistandyou’llbefedasteadydietofthisshit.你陈述了自己的看法，最终却被反驳。例如：你说你忘记我的生日，

7、我非常生气。得到的回应却是——“你竟然认为我忘记了你的生日，这太让我伤心了。我应该告诉你我当时面临多么大的压力——但是你看，我并不想麻烦你。你说得对，我应该抛开所有痛苦和烦恼，专心帮你过生日（如果这时候你看到对方潸然泪下千万别惊讶）。对不起。”尽管你听到的是这样的话，然而你从他们话里话外表达的意思可以感受到，他们根本不觉得抱歉——但是他们已经说了“对不起”，让你无话可说。或者是另外一种可能：你突然