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1、Chapter12-CloseRelationships:Passion,Intimacy,andSexualityWhatIsLove?DifferentTypesofRelationshipsMaintainingRelationshipsSexualityWhatIsLove?PassionateLoveStrongfeelingsoflonging,desire,andexcitementtowardaspecialpersonAccompaniedbyphysiologicalarousal
2、,wefeelforanotherperson;whenourloveisreciprocated,wefeelgreatfulfillmentandecstasy,butwhenitisnot,wefeelsadnessanddespair.CompanionateLoveMutualunderstandingandcaringFeelingsofintimacyandaffectionDonotnecessarilyexperiencepassionorarousalinhisorherpresen
3、ce.PhysiologicaldifferencePresenceofPEALoveandCulturePassionateloveasasocialconstructionRomanticloveisfoundinmostculturesFormsandexpressionvarybycultureAttitudevariesbycultureanderaLoveAcrossTimePassionateloveisimportantforstartingarelationshipsExistsfor
4、abriefperiodoftimeCompanionateloveisimportantformakingitsucceedandsurviveTradeoffs-SexInandOutofMarriageMarriedpeoplehavesexmoreoften,moresatisfyingMarriedpeoplemorelikelyindicatephysicaloremotionalsatisfactionfromsexSinglepeoplespendmoretimeateachsexual
5、episodeSinglepeoplehavemoresexualpartnersSternberg’sTrianglePassionEmotionalstatewithhighbodilyarousalIntimacyFeelingofcloseness,mutualunderstandingandconcernCommitmentConsciousdecision;remainsconstantLoveStylesSixstyleshavebeenidentified:Eros-passionate
6、,physicalloveLudus-loveasagameStorge-lovethatevolvesoutoffriendshipPragma-pragmaticloveMania-emotional,roller-coasterloveAgape-self-lessloveDifferentTypesofRelationshipsExchangerelationshipsMorefrequentinbroadersocietyIncreasessocietalprogressandwealthCo
7、mmunalrelationshipsMorefrequentincloseintimaterelationshipsMoredesirable,healthier,andmatureAttachmentBowlbyInfluencedbyFreudianandlearningtheoryBelievedchildhoodattachmentpredictedadultrelationshipsShaverIdentifiedattachmentstylestodescribeadultrelation
8、shipsAnxious/Ambivalent–Secure-AvoidantAttachmentTheoryTheorydevelopedalongtwodimensionsAnxietyandAvoidanceFourattachmentstylesSecureattachmentDismissingavoidantattachmentFearfulavoidantattachmentPreoccupiedattachmentAttac