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1、ChapterFourLove,Intimacy,andSexualCommunicationHistoricalPerspectivesArrangeMarriagesDowriesBundlingMarriageforLoveandIntimacyEstablishingEarlyIntimacyFieldofEligiblesPhysicalAttractivenessThe“BeautifulisBetter”BiasTheEffectofMediaTheMatchingHypothesisProximityProximityEffectMereExposureEffectSim

2、ilarityFlirtingReciprocityofAttractionJohnLee’sStylesofLoveTheSixStylesErosLoveLudusLoveStorgeLoveManiaLovePragmaLoveAgapeLoveCombiningLoveStylesJohnLee’sStylesofLove(cont.)RobertSternberg’sTriangularTheoryofLoveTheThreeComponentsIntimacyPassionCommitmentRobertSternberg’sTriangularTheoryofLovePos

3、sibleCombinationsoftheThreeComponentsLiking(I)Infatuation(P)EmptyLove(C)RomanticLove(I&P)FatuousLove(P&C)CompanionateLove(I&C)ConsummateLove(I,P&C)ApplyingtheTriangularTheoryCommunicationInLoveRelationshipsSelf-Disclosure:HowMuchShouldYouRevealAboutYourself?BehavioralAttributions:WhyDidYouDoThat?

4、Relationship-enhancingAttributionsDistress-maintainingAttributionsPatternsofEffectiveCommunicationValidatingCommunicationVolatileCommunicationConflict-avoidingCommunicationCommunicationInLoveRelationships(cont.)CommunicationWarningSignsCriticismContemptDefensivenessStonewallingImprovingCommunicat

5、ionUnderstandingIntimateCommunication:Six“SimpleTruths”EnhancingIntimateCommunication:Five“Rules”SexualCommunicationSexualSelf-disclosureBarriersLackofInformationEmbarrassmentInsecurityAboutUsingtheRightWordsSexualTaboosFearofJudgmentFearofRejectionStrategiesforImprovingSexualCommunicationLosingL

6、ove:TenReasonsWhyRelationshipsFailLackofSelf-knowledgeAcceptanceofSexualMythsandStereotypesIneffectiveCommunicationImbalancesofDecision-makingPowerLowSelf-esteem,InsecurityandLackofSelf-confidenceIsolationFailingtoKeepPromises,Lying,orCheatingExcessiveJealousy(Normalvs.Delusional)ControlIssuesVio

7、lenceAbusiveandViolentRelationshipsTypesofRelationshipAbusePhysicalVerbalEmotionalInTouchwithYourSexualHealth:SignsofRelationshipAbuseSignsThatYouMayHaveanAbusivePartnerSignsThatYouMayBeanAbusivePartnerAbusiveandViolen