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1、25种提升自信的好方法1.Groomyourself.装扮自己。Thisseemslikesuchanobviousone,butit'samazinghowmuchofadifferenceashowerandashavecanmakeinyourfeelingsofself-confidenceandforyourself-image.TherehavebeendayswhenIturnedmymoodaroundcompletelywiththisonelittlething.这似乎看上去显而
2、易见了,但洗澡或是剃胡须后给你自我感觉上带来的自信和自我形象上的改进却是很神奇的。一直以来,你就是通过这样一件小小的事情来彻底的改变自己的情绪。2.Dressnicely.穿戴好些。Acorollaryofthefirstitemabove…ifyoudressnicely,you'llfeelgoodaboutyourself.You'llfeelsuccessfulandpresentableandreadytotackletheworld.Now,dressingnicelymeanssome
3、thingdifferentforeveryone…itdoesn'tnecessarilymeanwearinga500$’soutfit,butcouldmeancasualclothesthatarenicelookingandpresentable.这是上面一条必然产生的结果……如果你穿戴好些,你的自我感觉会很好,你会觉得自己很成功,很得体,已经准备好来应对这个世界。这里,穿戴好对于每个人来说是不一样的…你不必穿500美元一套的衣服,但可以穿很好看也很得体的休闲服饰。3.Photoshopy
4、ourself-image.修改你的自我形象。Ourself-imagemeanssomuchtous,morethanweoftenrealize.Wehaveamentalpictureofourselves,anditdetermineshowconfidentweareinourselves.Butthispictureisn'tfixedandimmutable.Youcanchangeit.UseyourmentalPhotoshoppingskills,andworkonyoursel
5、f-image.Ifit'snotaverygoodone,changeit.Figureoutwhyyouseeyourselfthatway,andfindawaytofixit.自我形象对于我们来说意义重大,比我们认为的重要得多。我们在脑海里都有一个自我形象,它决定了我们自信的程度。但这个形象不是固定改变的,你可以改变它的。多使用你的脑海中的图像修改功能,用在你的自我形象上。如果你脑海中的自我形象不是很好,就修改一下吧。找到为什么你那样看待自己,并找个方法解决它。4.Thinkpositive
6、.积极思考。OneofthethingsIlearnedwhenIstartedrunning,abouttwoyearsago,whathowtoreplacenegativethoughts(seenextitem)withpositiveones.HowIcanactuallychangemythoughts,andbydoingsomakegreatthingshappened.Withthistinylittleskill,Iwasabletotrainforandrunamarathon
7、withinayear.Itsoundssotrite,soNormanVincentPeale,butmygoodnessthisworks.Seriously.Tryitifyouhaven't.二年前,当我学习跑步时,我学到的一件事情是如何用积极的想法来取代消极的想法(见下一条)。如何通过这样改变自己的想法来使好的事情发生。就是使用这样一个小小的技艺,我在不到一年训练后就能跑马拉松。这听起来是如此陈腐,和诺曼.文森特.皮尔一样。但谢天谢地它很有效。真的,如果你还没有试过的话,不妨试一试。5.K
8、illnegativethoughts.去除消极的想法。Goeshand-in-handwiththeaboveitem,butit'ssoimportantthatImadeitaseparateitem.Youhavetolearntobeawareofyourself-talk,thethoughtsyouhaveaboutyourselfandwhatyou'redoing.WhenIwasrunning,sometimesmymindwouldstartto