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1、Unit1HappyFamilyLife(1)PartIWarmingupA.Tipsforahappymarriage1Goondateswitheachother.Renewromanticfeelingsbyspendingspecialtimetogether.2.Beasspecificasyoucanwhenyoucomplain,makearequest,orofferpraise.3Whenstressedbyfatigueoryourowninsecurities,imagineyouandyourp
2、artnerinafoxhole,surroundedbydanger.Insteadofstrikingoutatyourpartner,findawaytoprotectthepartnership!4.Whenyoufeel"distant,"talkaboutitwithyourpartner.5.Beassuredthatpartnersinallmarriagessometimesgettired,irritable,ordistracted.Worktogethertounderstandeachothe
3、r.6.Respecteachother.Leaveifdangerexists.Findprofessionalhelpifphysical,sexual,emotional,orverbalabuseoccurs.7Fightto"understand,"notto"win."Tape-scriptHereareafewgeneralideasIbelievehelpmakeamarriagework:1.Goondateswitheachother.Renewromanticfeelingsbyspendings
4、pecialtimetogether.2.Beasspecificasyoucanwhenyoucomplain,makearequest,orofferpraise.3.Whenstressedbyfatigueoryourowninsecurities,imagineyouandyourpartnerinafoxhole,surroundedbydanger.Insteadofstrikingoutatyourpartner,findawaytoprotectthepartnership!4.Whenyoufeel
5、"distant,"talkaboutitwithyourpartner.5.Beassuredthatpartnersinallmarriagessometimesgettired,irritable,ordistracted.Worktogethertounderstandeachother.6.Respecteachother.Leaveifdangerexists.Findprofessionalhelpifphysical,sexual,emotional,orverbalabuseoccurs.7.Figh
6、tto"understand,"notto"win."B.Tapescript:Havingbeenmarriedformorethan40years,Icanattesttothetruthofthefollowingstatement:Toexcelintheartofdomesticargument,onemustmastertheartof1osing.Modernpsychologistsaretakenwiththe"win-win"solution.Butinmarriage,successresides
7、morein"lose-lose"solutions.Outofthese,bothpartiescanwin.Forintheloveconfiguration,losinggivesa~thatalwaysreturns.Theissuesthatpeopleargueovermostinmarriage,suchashowtospendmoney,oftenaren'ttherealones.Thekeyissueis:Whoisgoingtobeincontrol?WhenIwasyounger,myneedt
8、ocontrolaroseoutoffear,alackoftrust,insecurity.ThedayIfinallyrealizedIdidn'tneedtocontrolmywife--that,indeed,Ioughtnottocontrolher,thatIcouldn'tcontrolher,andthatifIt
