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1、Unit1HappyFamilyLifePartIWarmingupSectionAThePorterFamilyMrWilliamPorterisveryold.He’s87.AndMrsCatherinePorteris80.MrPorterisfromWales.JohnPorterandMaryarebrotherandsister.JohnPorteris53andhe’salawyer.HiswifeSusanis48,andshe’sanarchitect.JamesPorterandJoanLeearecousi
2、ns.JamesPorteris24andJoanLeeis17.SectionBHereareafewgeneralideasIbelievehelpmakeamarriagework;1.Goondateswitheachoilier.Renewromanticfeelingsbyspendingspecialtimetogether.2.Beasspecificasyoucanwhenyoucomplain,makearequest,orofferpraise.3.Whenstressedbyfatigueoryourow
3、ninsecurities,imagineyouandyourpartnerinafoxhole,surroundedbydanger.Insteadofstrikingoutatyourpartner,findawaytoprotectthepartnership!4.Whenyoufeel“distant,”talkaboutitwithyourpartner.5.Beassuredthatpartnersinallmarriagessometimesgettired,irritable,ordistracted.Workt
4、ogethertounderstandeachother.1.Respecteachother.Leaveifdangerexists.Findprofessionalhelpifphysical,sexual,emotional,orverbalabuseoccurs.2.Fightto“understand,”notto“win.”SectionCHereisapassageabouthowtoexcelintheartofdomesticargument.Supplythemissingwordswhilelistenin
5、g.Tapescript:Havingbeenmarriedformorethan40years,Icanattesttothetruthofthefollowingstatement:Toexcelintheartofdomesticargument,onemustmastertheartoflosing.Modernpsychologistsaretakenwiththe“win-win”solution.Butinmarriage,successresidesmorein“lose-lose”solutions.Outof
6、these,bothpartiescanwin.Forintheloveconfiguration,losinggivesagiftthatalwaysreturns.Theissuesthatpeopleargueovermostinmarriage,suchashowtospendmoney,oftenaren’ttherealones.Thekeyissueis:Whoisgoingtobeincontrol?WhenIwasyounger,myneedtocontrolaroseoutoffear,alackoftrus
7、t,insecurity.ThedayIfinallyrealizedIdidn’tneedtocontrolmywife—that,indeed,Ioughtnottocontrolher,thatIcouldn’tcontrolher,andthatifItriedto,Iwoulddestroyourmarriage—wasthedayourmarriagebegan.Whatisitwewantmostfromamarriage?Toloveandbeloved.Tobehappyandsecure.Togrowtodi
8、scover.Aloverelationshipisthegardeninwhichweplant,cultivateandharvestthemostpreciousofcrops,ourownself,andinwhichourspouseisprovide
