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1、孩子为什么不听话因你不会批评!(Whyisn'tthechildobedientBecauseyouwon'tcriticize!)Whycriticismdoesn'twork?Everyonemakesmistakes,butinreality,onlychildrenwhomakemistakescanbemorevulnerabletocriticism.Why?BecausechildrenoftenmakemistakesIncorrect!Becausethechildissmall,
2、donotunderstandthings,easytomakemistakes?Incorrect!Becauseourparentsalwaysfollowthechildren'seyes.Yes!Allchildren'smannersarebasicallyoutofthereachoftheirparents.Assoonasshefellonthefloorcarelessly,themotherwouldsay,"howcanyoubesocareless?"!"Iftheexamr
3、esultsarenotsatisfactory,therewillbeavoicesounded:"youseehowtheexamsobad."."Ifaccidentallylostsomething,therewillbeavoicesaid:"howdoyoualwaysabsent-minded."Justhitthechild,hasnotcomeoutfromthesad,painfulgrievances,evenhumiliatingemotions,oftenwithastor
4、mofcriticism,theheartIfeelunhappy,butnotwhatway!Butcanonlysilentlysilently,boldmaytopwords,butitwillprovokescolding,reallywrongedyoumaycry.OhThiscanbeevenworse,parentswillshout"crywhatcry."!There'snothingtocryabout!"Andhaveyoueverthoughtaboutit?Whydoyo
5、ualwayscriticizefrommorningtillnight?Whydoyouoftencriticizethesamequestion?Isitbecausethechildisdisobedient?Notsensible?There'stoomuchtroubleHaveyoueverwonderedwhyyourcriticismdidn'twork?Somepeoplesighthatlifeisdifficult!It'shardertobeawoman!Ithinkyoum
6、ustsaynowthatit'shardertobeamotherthantobeamother!EverydayIgettothefronttosubscribetomagazinesandnewspapers.Thereisanofficerondutywhoisanoldladyandhergranddaughteroftencomeshereafterschool.Oneday,asusual,Igotthenewspaperandwentinandsawthelittlegirllyin
7、gonthedeskwritingherhomework.Theoldladywasteachingherlittlegranddaughter,"ah!"!What'swrongwithyou?Thewritingissougly!Thisrewrite,thatonehastoberewritten!"Handbyhandtopulloutalittlegirlangrilyrebukedthesideedge,thelittlegirlseemstousetheeraseractionisto
8、oslow.Thelittlegirlpressedherlipstightly,hereyesstillinsilenttears,andreluctantlyerasedthewordsshehadjustwritten.Iamcurioustosee,theoriginalisthekindofpracticewordswork,everywordwrittenmanytimes,butthewordswrittenintheMword,seethelittle