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1、4.5种语句会让聪明的你听起来很傻Evenifyou'recleverandeducated,youcouldstillbeguiltyofmakingthesepopularbutannoyingspeakingmistakes.即使你很聪明也受过教育,但是你仍然可能会因为犯一些常见但很烦人的口语错误而充满罪恶感。There'salotyoucanchangeaboutyourpresentationtomakeyourselfseemsmarter(and,hey,ifyouwanttogofo
2、rsubstanceoverstyle,plentyofwaystoactuallybesmarter),butfewhaveabiggerimpactthaneliminatingbadspeechhabits.关于演讲,你可以做很多改变来让你自己看起来更聪明(另外,嘿,如果你主张内容重于风格,那么有很多方法可以让你实际上听起来更聪明),但是没有什么能比改掉演讲中的坏习惯更有效果。You'reaneducatedperson,however,whoknowstostayawayfromain't,
3、avoidsthevalleygirlstaple"like,"andsteersclearoffillerslikeummm."Doesthatmeanyourspeechisaspolishedasitcouldbe?Chancesarethatnomatterhowcleverandcarefulyouare,you'restillmakingatleastafewinadvertenterrorsthatlowerothers'opinionofyour intelligence.你是一个受
4、过教育的人,然而,谁知道要远离"ain't(不是)",避免山里的女娃特爱说的"like",以及绕开使用诸如"ummm(嗯)"之类的填充词呢。那是否意味着你的演讲能和预期一样达到精彩绝伦呢?可能的情况是:无论你多么聪明和细心,你仍然会犯一些会降低你在他人心中的聪明程度的无心的错误。That'sthemessageofaninterestingrecentpostfromSarahWinfreyonblogWiseBread.Ratherthantheusualsuspectsofpoorspeakin
5、g,Winfreydigsupsomespeechhabitsthatarelessoftencommented onbutnolessannoyingandthatevenpeoplewhopayattentiontotheircommunicationstyleareoftenguiltyof.Herearefiveofthebest:这是SarahWinfrey最近在WiseBread博客上写的一篇有意思的文章所表达的观点。不像通常那种口语差的主题,这篇文章中Winfrey发现有些演讲习惯很少
6、被人评论,但是容易让人厌烦,并且当人们注意到自己的沟通风格中也会不经意用到时会充满罪恶感。下面是用的最多的5个:1."Iknow,right?"“我知道,对吧?”Popularamongeager-to-please20-somethings,thisphrasesounds innocuousbutisactuallypretty awkward."Itasksaquestionthattheotherpersonmaynotknowwhetherornottoanswer.Sinceyou're
7、askingthemto affirmsomethingtheyjustsaid,usingthiscanmaketheotherpersonintheconversationconfused,anditcanmakeyoulooklikeyoudon'tknowwhattosay,"explainsWinfrey. Optforasimple"Oh,yeah"orjustreceptivesilenceinstead,sheadvises.这句话在急于取悦别人的20多岁的人中很流行,它听起来无伤大
8、雅但是实际上非常尴尬。Winfrey解释说“它附带的问题让其他人不知道回答还是不回答。你让他们确认他们刚刚说的东西,用这句话会让谈话中的其他人感到困惑,而且这也会显得你似乎不知道该说什么。”2."You'llbefine."“你会没事的”Maybethepersonyousaythistoreallywillbefine,butchancesareheorshewillthinkyou'rea bonehead."Whensomethingbadhappenstoso