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1、FirstListeningPleaselistentoashortpassagecarefullyandpreparetoanswersomequestions.SecondListeningListentothetapeagain.Thenanswerthefollowingquestionswithyourownexperiences.1.Howlongdoesittakeustojudgethepeoplewemeet?2.Whatisonewayyoucanhaveapositiveeffectonotherpeople?3.Whatisthekeytobeing
2、thebestpersonyoucanbe?HowtoMakeaGoodImpressionResearchshowswemakeupourmindsaboutpeoplethroughunspokencommunicationwithinsevensecondsofmeetingthem.Consciouslyorunconsciously,weshowourtruefeelingswithoureyes,faces,bodiesandattitudes,causingachainofreactions,rangingfromcomforttofear.Thinkabou
3、tsomeofyourmostunforgettablemeetings:anintroductiontoyourfuturespouse,ajobinterview,anencounterwithastranger.Focusonthefirstsevenseconds.Whatdidyoufeelandthink?Howdidyou"read"theotherperson?Howdoyouthinkhereadyou?Youarethemessage.For25yearsI'veworkedwiththousandswhowanttobesuccessful.I'veh
4、elpedthemmakepersuasivepresentations,answerunfriendlyquestions,communicatemoreeffectively.Thesecrethasalwaysbeenyouarethemessage.Otherswillwanttobewithyouandhelpyouifyouuseyourgoodqualities.Theyinclude:physicalappearance,energy,rateofspeech,pitchandtoneofvoice,gestures,expressionthroughthe
5、eyes,andtheabilitytoholdtheinterestofothers.Othersformanimpressionaboutyoubasedonthese.Thinkoftimeswhenyouknowyoumadeagoodimpression.Whatmadeyousuccessful?Youwerecommittedtowhatyouweretalkingaboutandsoabsorbedinthemoment,youlostallself-consciousness.Beyourself.Manyhow-tobooksadviseyoutostr
6、ideintoaroomandimpressotherswithyourqualities.Theyinstructyoutogreetthemwith"powerhandshakes"andtellyoutofixyoureyesontheotherperson.Ifyoufollowallthisadvice,you'lldriveeveryonecrazy—includingyourself.Thetrickistobeconsistentlyyou,atyourbest.Themosteffectivepeopleneverchangefromonesituatio
7、ntoanother.They’rethesamewhetherthey'rehavingaconversation,addressingtheirgardencluborbeinginterviewedforajob.Theycommunicatewiththeirwholebeing;thetonesoftheirvoicesandtheirgesturesmatchtheirwords.Publicspeakers,however,oftensendmixedmessages.Myfavoriteisthek
